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Every now and then I hear this sentence, or attempts to explain this topic, from women as well. I'm writing this here mainly to organize my own thoughts on this, and maybe for the future a few more pussies are eaten.
First of all, a single sexual practice, disconnected from circumstances, is not per se 'Dominant' or 'Submissive'. If it were, you would always be in the 'bottom' role while being penetrated in whatever way. Is that so? I think not.


Following this line of reasoning, cunnilingus on a lady cannot mean that the man who gives it to her falls into a submissive role. It depends mainly on the setting in which you do it:


I can say, for example, in a demanding, authoritative voice: "I want to taste you!"
My property, my pussy, my right to taste it.
I can, for example, fix her on a table, immobilize her and perform this act sitting on a chair. This eliminates the kneeling or lying in front of her aspect.
I can have a firm grip on her thighs so that she cannot 'resist' depending on her physical condition. No escape possible.
It can be a delicious (pun 😉 ) mean way of orgasm control, or the other way around, a delicious way of forced orgasms. I can make her beg for both.
I can hurt her while I do it, for example, work her nipples while I do it, or use my teeth (pleasure vs pain).
I can reward her for being a GOOD GIRL.
I can get up close and personal (deep eye contact!) with her face after she cummed in my face and say, 'Look at the mess you made! Lick your own cum off, slut!'.
I can make her beg for my cock while she squirms, who wouldn't want that?
I can clearly tell her not to move until I'm done with her.
Does it mean if I give her cuddles after the session that I'm less dominant? My 'pleasure' is secondary here. This follows partly the same principle.


Do you see what I am getting at? All of these things mentioned are pretty damn dominant in my opinion. Dominance isn't about taking pleasure from another to gratify one's self. It is about being in control of who is getting pleasure and how and when.


Who is in charge? Who is in control? Who decides? Exactly, the D-type in the situation.
A D-type should adore HIS S-type, then why not her cunt out of all?


If your D-type is a pro in pussy eating, it's not a bug, it's a feature!

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