This week’s question is one I really hope you all answer, because I’m looking for a bit of advice.
I love C. More than I’ve ever loved anyone else. But sometimes our sexual moods just don’t match. I’ve always had a high libido, but when work or life is stressful, I have a hard time thinking about sexytime.
I want to please C though. She would NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER pressure me into having sex if I didn’t want to, but the problem is that I DO want to…my mood just says otherwise.
So, sometimes I just do it. Even though I’m not in the mood.
I feel kind of crappy either way.
My advice to people is to break up if libidos do not match. C and I aren’t that far apart. Usually we both have fairly high sex drives.
I’m curious though – how do you and your partner deal with it when you have nights where one person wants to fuck and the other doesn’t?
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2:43 pm Saturday, 16th March, 2013
That's easy , just get me in cos I want to fuck all the time .....LOL |
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1:55 pm Sunday, 17th March, 2013
@fantasies...haha. nice |
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2:00 pm Sunday, 17th March, 2013
destiny65... i completely understand what your saying. as a guy you have to fulfil your 'duty' even if you are having a cardiac arrest..lol. its always good if both parties understand each others situation as maybe the guy is under some stress.. or he could be cheating, bummer!!
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2:11 pm Sunday, 17th March, 2013
Destiny 65... If it’s a regular problem, like in your case, I think that the relationship is going to suffer and it’s probably not right. Sex is more important than people give it credit for. a split could be an option |
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2:11 pm Sunday, 17th March, 2013
Destiny 65... If it’s a regular problem, like in your case, I think that the relationship is going to suffer and it’s probably not right. Sex is more important than people give it credit for. a split could be an option |
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10:10 am Tuesday, 19th March, 2013
Destiny65, I understand exactly what you're going through; and feel the same way :-( |
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2:51 pm Tuesday, 19th March, 2013
Oh dear!!!img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif" |
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9:24 am Saturday, 23rd March, 2013
Destiny65....Your lucky you got 3 beautiful children. Apparently it seems that your hand was forced. No condemnation from us. Seeing you tried so hard. Does he really want to throw away 15 years? that's a long time by any standards!! Hang in there..in the meantime play safe. |
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9:28 am Saturday, 23rd March, 2013
Minxfun...any suggestions to destiny65? |
