Sensual Massage Techniques Explained For Newbies

Sometimes, getting a nice, long massage from your partner can make you feel better than sex. Giving your partner a massage is not only an act of love & kindness, but it's the ultimate foreplay. By using touch, lighting candles, and anointing your partner with oil, a massage is as erotic as it gets.

Of course, tapping into your inner masseuse isn't always easy. So based on our experience the best tips on giving your partner a relaxing, intimate, erotic massage that will leave them wanting for more.

While we are arguably more in control of and confident about our sexuality than ever, there's still so much we don't know about arousal. The intimacy benefits of learning how to give a proper massage are boundless. If you're interested in the kinky elements of massage, then bonding is really the key than role-playing.

Below are the few techniques that can be followed for very good new experiences.

Set up the mood:
The atmosphere is the key for setting it up to a perfect one. First of all, choose a very quiet place where you would like to massage your partner. Start with lighting few aromatic candles, then pick up a nice body oil. Make a playlist of relaxing music and decorate the bed with flower petals.

Lubrication is key:
Make sure your partner is nice and lubed up before you start. Apply lotion or oil to your hands first, then use long gliding strokes to apply the warmed oil to your partner. Don't make the mistake of squeezing cold oil or lotion on your partner because it feels startling and unpleasant.

Caressing your partner:
Skin is the largest organ of our body and it grows very sensitive to touch. Deep awareness of touch relaxes us into the erotic trance. A wonderful way to start the massage is by taking the hand of your partner and rubbing the inside of their palm with your finger.
From there, you can turn the palm of the hand up and rub the inside of their wrists with your thumbs. Then, hold the wrist with one hand while you squeeze the thumb side of their hand, so you pull down and decompress the thumb. From there, do the same on the other side with the other hand. The soothing technique will also relax your partner and help loosen tension so you can move onto other areas of the body because body caresses are more sensual than sexual.

Important Areas:
Massaging the back & shoulders first is important it relaxes your partner immediately & benefits can be felt throughout their body. Use kneading strokes on the shoulders & neck, and apply a moderate amount of pressure on areas that feel stiff or hard, avoiding the spine and any bones. When you are applying pressure, try to really feel what's going on underneath your fingers, rather than just doing the action of the movement. Listen to your partner's muscles, and watch for signs of tension or relaxation. Finally, end with the foot for sure.

Sensual Exploration:
Even though we think of taste, smell, sound, sight, touch, as individual senses, we mostly use them in unison. Consciously focusing on one sense at a time makes you far more aware of it. With greater awareness, you can focus on every reaction, feeling, sensation, and so heighten and intensify your massage experiences.

Erogenous Zones:
Distributed over the entire body, the erogenous zones contain the greatest concentration of nerve endings. With sufficient simulation, these nerve endings send a torrent of pleasure signals and sensual excitement directly to the brain. These hotspots are definitely affected by feelings and what goes on in the mind. So every touch on the body is liable to cause a strong or weak sexual response.

After massage adventures:
The act of simply wrapping yourself lovingly around your partner generates feelings of comfort, tenderness and provides a gentle start to sex. You do not have to use your hands to massage everywhere. You can use tongue, blindfold or handcuff your partner, whisper sweet nothings and plant small kisses while massaging and you do not need to be dressed during the entire deed.

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