Quite honesty i might look back as this is where it all began for the longest time I've wanted to put a collar on a well trained angel. See to the untrained and uneducatred they see s and m as decreasing but in actuality its a settle dance see the sub surrenders them self their life their wants their almost entire being and free will to the master in exchange the master teaches them protects them dissaplines them sharpens them into a fine deadly blade like a blacksmith until they are perfect in unison he does this to achieve a companion same as her but together they would be nothing without the subs surrender but the sub must be willing to surrender and the master must know his subs limits and never ever go to far if a dom loses his subs trust he can ireperabky wreak the sub for life... so the subtle balance must be mantinted