If you want to make this a good weekend, my suggestion would be to start it off with a descent massage and then see where it leads you.
It's relaxing and sensual if you do it right. Always use massage or baby oil and be nice; warm it up in the palm of your hand first - pouring it directly on the body is just a porn film trick and really doesn't help anyone relax.
Start by the shoulders and spend the first 2-3 minutes working the massage oil into all parts of the back.
Then use firm hands to work some heat into the area. Start at the base of the back, near the spine. Use the palms of your hands and make circular motions up and out (up the back and out towards the waist) - Don't go lightly because it tickles and that's worse than not doing it at all! - the only place to go lightly and carefully is around the neck - there use your fingertips and make your hand into the shape of one of those orgasmatron head massagers if you've seen them ( I call it a 5 legged spider but don't say that out loud if your partener are scared of spiders!)
What ever you do though, make sure to take your time and move slowly. Be firm but deliberate in what you do, but make sure you don't rush into anything. This is about the two of you connecting and feeling the sensations that are going on. Close your eyes if you want to and feel and smell the things that are happening rather than watching.
You'll be amazed at what can happen if you just pay each other some attention before the weekend starts.
Enjoy!
Symbian
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12:04 pm Friday, 22nd February, 2013
ummmm sounds great,however one thing to remember do not press on the spine,other that that it is the most amazingly intimate part of foreplay as i have ever known everyone should try it,enjoy. |
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12:38 pm Friday, 22nd February, 2013
What a mistake to leave that part out! Also avoid putting pressure on the shoulder blades. Sorry about that... |
