BDSM ( Bondage, Domination, Sadism, Masochism )

The True BDSM is perceived in 3 different combinations:-
Bondage & Discipline ; Domination & Submission ; Sadism & Masochism
Bondage & Discipline = Restrained through usage of Eye mask/blindfolded, hand cuffed, arrested with ropes on entire body and like wise, while enforcing certain rules for being obedient. Disobedience would cause to get punished (Pre agreed).
Domination & Submission = Dominant is who takes the charge, while the submissive partner willingly surrender to the master/mistress. Doesn't mean the dominant partner can do whatever the hell he/she wanted on the submissive partner. It is again here purely based on pre-agreed terms, subject to the limiting boundaries of submissive's role.
Sadism & Masochism = here, the one who enjoys causing pain while the other enjoys seeking the mixed reaction of pain cum pleasure. Extremities of pain is out of the original context of BDSM relationship.


Some myths of BDSM
1. BDSM is not a contractual relationship rather, it's like any other relationship but with an agreed terms of kink involved in it to an extent they are ready to experience it.
2. BDSM is not just sex but it's beyond and consensual... Pre Care like Consent n Communication, Post care like the well being and better state of mind after the session are essential things to be taken care of.
3. People who engage in BDSM do not have any abusive/ traumatic past experiences. a big NO.
4. BDSM relationships are neither abusive nor controlling rather it is a relationship with lots of trust to explore the untold side of you to explore the kink at the fullest.
5. BDSM is not tor ture.
6.DOM & Sub need not be DOMS n SUBS in real life too. In fact, lot of people switch their roles.
7.There is nothing like a sub has to perform his/her role at any cost, once the session has started. Its nothing like that. There is a code/safe word uttered to express that the sub is not comfortable to take the act forward and the dominant has to stop there.
8. BDSM doesn't need to be expensive with all the red room gadgets. Its simply the sub wants to be controlled/arrested/overpowered upon by getting pinned down could be with the usage of easy available juggad materials which are safe to be used on them.


A Study in 2014, Journal of sexual medicine says that
65% women want to be dominated
47% women want to dominate their partners
52% women wanted to be tied up and explore this lifestyle


Best part of this dimensional act is
A novel way to bring the excitement into your sexual lives to address:
- loss of control over you being surrendered fully can be very interesting
- one of the nicest way of exploring your relationship
- builds faith in your partner
- it is radically liberating your fears and healing in many ways


Live, let live! By exploring with a like minded individual if you fantasize about it.

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