I self-introduced myself to swinging shortly after separation/divorce saying to myself "this is it...time to have fun that i never did, not even when i was young" .....so after a few online searches i found an event....met the lady organiser.....followed the rules and that was it....." I'm in" as they say in poker!! it was an amazing event that got me hooked up. Spent some time helping and coordinating events for couples too.
Some years later, now I find myself searching again for fun. The local picture changed alot there are much more younger foreigners willing to have fun (which is a plus) however one is very doubtful of some profiles! even with my experience after actually meeting couples to verify if they are real or not....it's never a clear picture! One can be very illusive online unfortunately. Some people's sexual want & dreams are far greater than the will to be truthful or respectful or safe.....and i also find that some more experienced couples get sort of addicted to "selfishness" and "sexual want" without considering other people's feelings / lack of respect or fair game! people forget it's only a game...meant to have fun!
So because of all these doubts and online mistrust these days i say to myself "is this real" ? do they really exist? maybe....
6:14 am Wednesday, 21st April, 2021
Very good point. It all boils down to respect in my opinion |