Well through this blog we wish to take opportunity to educate and safegaurd lifestyle followers.. pl

Just sticking to your questionnaire.

1) Contact with more people means more risk. Only by keeping the group small, and choosing the people having given due regard to their lifestyle, can the risk be reduced. In other words, don't go for quantity rather stick to the quality of people you choose to meet if avoiding risk is your main concern.

2) Etiquettes vary from person to person. There is no uniform code of conduct in this lifestyle. However, I might say, transparency in communication and respecting one's wish should be the priority. For those who don't understand the basic customs of civilized and liberal living, this life style is simply not appropriate.

3) One basically start this life style with clear and honest communication between the partners. Its only when a couple has developed the trust and maturity to enter this lifestyle, that they should start meeting other couples. Always remember, this lifestyle is not a license for people to cheat their partners, rather a way to improve married life through meeting interesting and liberal people with similar tastes in life.

Hope it helps.

Excellent and hats off to you sirmadam for such a crystal clear communication .. You have improved this community a little bit and we will make it more safe and enjoyable by communicating..

Thanks

I think this blog has got quite a bit of comments which are good general philosophical approach but more technical based comment will help further to be more specific. For example bacteria or yeast based infections have cure in allopathy where as virus we don't think allopathy has answer. It is more of preventive like taking some innoculation kind of stuff.. but being more specific and technical will make this blog real live

Your questions are a bit confusing? Are you looking for something to prevent infection? because the only way to be completely sure of no infection is no sexual contact!

There is no way to ABSOLUTELY prevent risk, the best options, if you choose to go ahead with it are to get to know the people you engage with and decide whether or not to trust them when they say they're clean, have been tested, etc.

Bacterial and fungal infections are treatable (chlamydia, gonorrhea, yeast etc). Viral infections (herpes and HIV) just aren't, and there's no was around it. There aren't any jabs around to prevent any of it!

My advice:
Get to know your partners beforehand. Ask them how often they get tested for STIs and be willing to show that you will, too. Use condoms.

As for how to start.....look around here, be friendly, visit a club, and above all, be patient. The right people will show up in time.

Great comment and as expected only goddess can do so ..

Salute ..

As far as AIDS is concerned .....there is only one way of infection .....that is exchange of Body Fluid in any manner between two people .....Moreover that body fluid if remain in contact with air ( like saliva ) it may not infect you


So best way to avoid is to use COndoms even giving blowjobs ...since any cut in mouth may come in direct contact with blood cell of partner ....if you or your partner have rashes cut etc in vagina or dick ...please avoid it .

kising and licking body is safe .kissing is safe since saliva cannot infect

Meeting the right people, and sticking with them should be at the top of the list for healthy lifestyle let alone swinging.

If you are so worried that taking a step outside your home bothers you, then don't shake hands with strangers :)