on internet there are so many people talking about taking it slow... Yes i do, and i will. because i am already satisfied with my sexual life with my wife. i don't want to run our marriage just because of my selfish interest. But on the otherhand; time is passing and we are getting to the level that people wont be in to us in 10 years time. I think these years is the time that we can truly enjoy swinging. What you think? 
