Small Guide for Newbies into this Lifestyle

After so many months in this site, we felt it is time to share some of our experiences we learnt from this platform and off it with the amazing community.


Physiology: There should be physiological relief that you are not thinking anything weird and many people are dealing with such thoughts and you are normal only.


Idea: It is important to be aware of what is exactly this lifestyle is about and what it leads to before jumping in throughly.


Criteria: Check your compatibility with each other, the background tells a lot about living standard. May be revealing just enough to ignite the passion, yet teasing, few close up of essential characters of each others make sense.


Match: Based on the feedback from web articles, the couple must be an unknown one as you are under trial run initially. So go through several posts by many people here with your same desires before making any judgement.


Privacy: Must be mentally prepared for it as there are fakes all around. Then ignore couples who are in an unstable and unhealthy relationship because this idea is going to spoil their relationship. Trust on each other must be 100%.


Media: Don't start or ask to see each others private parts photos, but many dive into such conversation in the beginning itself. More photographs of such type won't get you more people, but good photographs would certainly attract the right minded people for you.


Conversation: Start interacting via chats then by calls and finally meet them casually in the beginning. Always reality would be totally different than the virtual world.


Food: Certain foods have been linked to increasing drive towards fantasies, due to their nutritional value and their role in aiding blood flow, so it is very important to start with a dinner.


Remember: Don’t be rushing and let the relationship move forward in its own course of time.


Side Effects: Beware that no one is embarrassed during or after the fun.


Desires: Most of the people would have unique desires. Either of them (Male or female) is unaware what is happening or just agree to lose the burden during the act, so it is vital to discuss a lot more.


Ideas: You can use Costumes & Props, Staying in character roleplays etc. Try to increase your bucket list as much as possible.


Likes & Dislikes: Continue to exchange the likes, dislikes of each other as it is crucial in building the bonding with each other.


Rules: Always set your rules along with your partner at the start itself and communication, patience & tolerance between each other should start growing through time.


Pros: It allows to remain faithful and explore this lifestyle leading to a happy life provided they are being transparent and open with each other.


Cons: Affair outside this relationship damages you when it is found. They always get caught, even if not, the guilty feeling you get would affect your love life and gets you mentally disturbed.


Finally, be open and transparent with each other of what you want and explore this lifestyle in a healthy way.

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