Couple Swap: Our take on Same Room Vs Separate Room

7:24 pm Tuesday, 2^nd March, 2021

As for us and most couples, swapping is one key component of the relationship in the swinging lifestyle.

However, there is always an underlying question that comes with each encounter: Should couples enjoy the action in the same room, or should they head to separate rooms?. The short answer is, depends on the participants' preferences.
Personally, I and Danuthri, have experienced both of these situations and are comfortable to enjoy the session equally. But again, depending on our partner's preferences.

Swinging In the Same Room

When we started in to this lifestyle, one of the biggest kinks we both had was seeing each other indulging in sexual pleasures with someone else. So we had our initial meetups in the same room with other partners and we were so happy that the couples we met, honored our preferences.

One other reason to pick 'same room' in our initial steps was, Danuthri felt safe when I also play around her. She was still gaining her confidence and exploring comfortness at that time. And even when we started meeting couples in a group setting, we still sticked on to 'same room' at times because the view you have is such a turn on.

You will also find some couples enjoy being able to touch each other while couple swapping and may even take their primary partner to task a time or two, as well.
So for these reasons and if your preferences also matches to this, same room sex is the choice for you.

Swinging In Separate Rooms

We play in separate rooms when we are comfortable with our swinging partners. There are some of Danuthri's partners who she regularly plays with and who she is comfortable with; and every time we play, she drags the guy (in some occasions the girl) to a separate room for some alone time. She says that it's in fact a turn on for her to have a passionate session separately.

However there are some men—and a few women—who simply never get past homophobia where they simply cannot stand the idea of someone of the same sex seeing them naked. Some partners don’t care to watch their lover with another, as they would prefer to focus on their own pleasure by being in a separate room.

Swinging separately provides certain couples with greater levels of sexual freedom. In these cases, separate rooms can ensure everyone has a good time.

So what is your preference?. Would you go for same room or separate rooms?. Our comment section is open for you to share your experiences.

Comments

meshro	1:56 pm Thursday, 4^th March, 2021 Good article ! Timely topic. For me its always what suits best for the present moment... keep writing guys.. cheers 💐
kinkmastersCMB	2:16 am Saturday, 6^th March, 2021 This is a good analysis. I agree with you on all the points.
arunksi752	1:51 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 SHUT UP
higginsremov07	1:56 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 why not if the woman is willing i am sure i will turn them on then the session of love making will be better
vickyagar631	2:12 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 I think u like adventure
tapanjo106	2:15 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 Hi
Hard14u45Lincoln	2:28 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 Same room
palmerles306	2:33 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 I would love to meet up with you soon xx
Oneplusone20	2:49 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 Foreplay same room fucking separate .
rahul8507	3:00 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 💏
WiccanPolyCouple	3:33 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 We prefer separate rooms most of the time because we are both voyeurs and watching our partner play distracts us from who we are playing with.
alars837	3:44 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 😱
ericra674	3:57 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 We like same room I enjoy seeing my husband with another woman and he likes seeing me with another guy such a good time
aashokalavan211	4:01 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 Same Room
bobge155	4:11 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 I would prefer the same room
morsho599	4:13 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. This could help me along my road at some point.
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ScorpioLibraCouple	7:42 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 We go with how the "dynamics" of the event goes. There have been instances where we play in the same room, and others where we play in different rooms.
hemu7	8:13 pm Tuesday, 9^th March, 2021 Yes ,My experience says that after initially in same room will enjoy as worm ups.Once gey confidence then later on separate room will give more active lady rather then in front of her hubby. She feel more free to do what she like to do fun which may be not able to perform in front of hubby..may hubby may get upset ..
coolsat972	5:46 am Wednesday, 10^th March, 2021 Hi
psy567	11:49 am Thursday, 11^th March, 2021 Separate room
singhyuv929	6:23 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Hi
jafrullak439	6:26 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Hi
lat295	6:26 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 It all depends on the couple's relationship. I go with the flow
jyem141	6:31 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Fuck yeah!! My dream has come true! You's would be willing to show me the ropes. I'm new to this but want to try new things
mc1203	6:36 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 My GF and I usually prefer same rooms because of what you mentioned...it is a total turn on for us to watch one another with other people...plus we like turning it into a larger group play also where pretty much anything goes and you can move around to other people.
che746poona	6:42 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 I want only real meet and sex not time pass I m searching only sex partner
Sandumar582	6:44 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Hello xx
amritku580	6:48 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Seperate rooms as someone always gets jelous or one out performs the other and suddenly there is a spark between the new girl that your fucking and if you make her orgasm multiple and her bf is a dud well thats when its a recipe for diaster separate rooms and it will go well every time
amitr302	6:49 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 I want to lick ur juicy pussy in front of ur patner till u cum on my face baby
john2327aucklqnd	7:00 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Hey
penel893	7:01 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 We’ve only just started on the Swinging scene, but one of my fantasies is watching my husband fucking, licking and sucking another woman! Can’t wait.we’ve found a couple who like the same, so,as soon as we get the go ahead from Boris, we’ll be in the same room!
aslamsha238	7:07 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Im top
shibukuma340	7:08 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Hello xxxx
rslnfrdz79	7:25 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 We love as couples! Real turn on!!!!
larrycurtsjenk722	7:32 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 If she likes it....I love it!!
amitvik367	7:34 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Where are you located
chunkp059	7:34 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Love to come and join in
malusand541	8:02 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Watching the other couple first then gradually joing in with their permission, not being pushy and slowly enjoying each other
IEandY	8:13 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 We've always been same room until we really get to know a couple and then still want to be able to hear and be close to one another. That's the reason why we have a large king-sized bed.
aruld300	8:27 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Nice
Nolry	8:31 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Fantastic reading
winston155	8:43 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 I would love the same room.Am bi curious and have no boundaries.
nicecouple1919	9:15 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 We prefer the same room as we both enjoy seeing the other experiencing the enjoyment of having sex with another person while touching or holding hands with each other.
kikiandwicky	9:24 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 We would luv to try seperate wit right coupl
jessicacro334Chicago	9:25 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Same room!!!
gstuartlo756	9:26 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 My husband and I are very interested in you after the pandemic ends we can travel to Sri Lanka As a woman I would be interested in passionate love making with both of you Very interested in bi and lesbian lovemaking I love to eat a delicious pussy
Gdubbs47	9:54 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 I haven't ever got the chance to experience swapping partners but I kinda like the idea ! Anyway I think that if I do ever get the chance to experience it I would choose the separate rooms for the first time anyway ! Then after I got a little more comfortable with it I wouldn't mind the same room so much !
Looking4more665	10:39 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 I am new to this life style and have played in the same room as well as meeting separately. As you said a person’s comfortability is the key. I enjoy both but get to have more fun when separated. Enjoy and be safe.
Coppaleb	11:28 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Same room lol
kyree2121	11:31 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 Was good me in my wife trying new things so y’all same cool
billJeanette69	11:40 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 We will play same or seperate rooms but if playing seperate we have a doors open only policy
Coolrico19	11:58 pm Friday, 12^th March, 2021 I don’t care I would do a threesome no problem
lura4677	12:02 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 I prefer same room for comfortable n safety of partner.
nani1826	12:56 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Same room we prefer... That's comfortable for me and my partner. And fired🔥😋
monusah422	1:01 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 I will prefer same room
ravired113	1:08 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Sameroom
rja624	1:19 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 It doesn't matter to me same room or separate rooms we are there to have fun and enjoy each other our joy enjoy the group so long as the guy leaves me alone I don't have no problem with it and as long as he doesn't try to play around with me I don't have a problem with it👅👍
ps72kumar	1:41 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Hai good morning
Ramcharanrath458	1:45 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Nice
Devu7	1:46 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate room
Devu7	1:46 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate room
aravindve243	2:25 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 I thought separate room
aravindve243	2:25 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 I thought separate room
pvdamodarb077	2:34 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate room
jandk069	2:37 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Big fan of both
gavaska114	3:09 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate room
mdssal219	3:15 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate room
mdssal219	3:16 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate room
mdssal219	3:16 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate room 👄
mdssal219	3:16 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate room 👄
mdssal219	3:16 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate room 👄
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tejkris181	4:03 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Joint
acs18	4:27 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate rooms give maximum pleasure
Max1269	4:42 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Different room
zai361	4:45 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Same room ....mor ppl more plsr...😍💕
news565	4:49 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Both rooms.
srivi728	5:03 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Swinging is seperate room will be more comfort & pleasure
vikashgu975	5:05 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Okay but I have more
nage001	5:21 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Super I like
rpkesarw802	5:24 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 I prefer the same room escapades because it ensures safety, enhancement of sexual level and self confidence.
neeraj248Delhi	5:28 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Prefer both rooms
jbc00FortWorth	5:30 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 We know first time with a new couple can be intense . Me and my wife just like to meet interesting and outgoing people. As long as we both are having fun we don't care
umeshluckydar445	5:54 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Me oolu hu kya
vinkum296	6:03 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Like ur comforts
singhrajku084	6:36 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 I prefer dame room for comfortable n safety of partner
ar0101Lucknow	6:39 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Same room
ComeplaymeMelbourne	6:49 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Same room
abhijitraj20	6:54 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate room will be good
JohanWitb650	7:10 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Same room
anuraghel995	9:04 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Good
Gv196	9:28 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Hi👌
fxglu87	9:43 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 it is very true experience. It is more enjoyable to have three sum like mfm and fmf which turns on and on. but Homophobias explained in this article is accurate and right
mukut873	9:43 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate room
gordoGlasgow	9:58 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Same room
wildfire20Ernakulam	10:07 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Same room
sahilsoh958	10:26 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 I like separate room
sahilsoh958	10:26 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021
mohsinya446	11:17 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Wow great value 💕
rajendraj287	11:36 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Same room
NIlesh7544	11:58 am Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Hi
boranav245	12:17 pm Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 मanpassnd partner ho or romantic room h to jhulla jhulne ka
sc041	1:58 pm Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 No same room , I like separate room
vtc28	3:39 pm Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Separate rooms are better ever, With concentration,,, 💞,,, You can spent your time with your beloved one, You can have fun with hesitation free mind, There will not be any disturbance, Can have pleasure as per demand, action and many more 💞
Shudhakarpanchb167	7:00 pm Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Thank you,
jamdhadedhanan331	10:50 pm Saturday, 13^th March, 2021 Hi
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Janujane	11:27 am Sunday, 14^th March, 2021 Hello
kharba336	12:27 pm Sunday, 14^th March, 2021 💕
sand706Ranchi	5:38 pm Sunday, 14^th March, 2021 I don't have any such experience
rdxcjm	1:01 am Monday, 15^th March, 2021 depends on the people involved,,,,
santoshpadel519	4:20 pm Monday, 15^th March, 2021 hi
dipakraur108	5:00 pm Monday, 15^th March, 2021 एक दिन सोथा तेरे पास पुरा सात ईच का लंड दालथा तेरे गांड मे
Venkey76	6:46 pm Monday, 15^th March, 2021 Hi
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venkateshannam30	1:27 am Tuesday, 16^th March, 2021 Ok
Ricconobikenow20	10:59 pm Wednesday, 17^th March, 2021 Always same room for us
rajibborgoh670umqqx	8:04 pm Friday, 19^th March, 2021 Same room
Shockenall1967	3:27 pm Tuesday, 30^th March, 2021 Either way
jimmytw842	6:50 am Wednesday, 20^th October, 2021 Hi how u
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