Most people often consider a sub as less of a man. But what if I tell you that it's exactly the opposite. Here I share why I like to be a sub.
First of all in our society men have the ultimate say in everything. Mostly they are the rule maker, they are the one who take control in bed and the lady just submits herself to him.
I like breaking rules, too much rules and regulations bore the hell out of me. Anything that is against the social norm always excites me. I always like a strong woman, who can stand up against the social stigmas. I have seen many strong woman in my life and they left a huge impression on my life and I always look forward to empower them. A man and a woman MUST have equal social status. In our country, marital sexual offence is not considered as a offence. A guy can easily get away with it, use the woman as his sex toy. He can fuck her whenever he likes.
But when a woman break the rule, nothing is sexier than that. When the female takes control over the man, she feels empowered. Atleast in bed she doesn't have to obey his male partner. The sense of power brings out the goddess that was hiding inside her. She can atleast feel less dominated and more dominant in her life.
Secondly, most of the men only thinks about pleasuring himself and often leave the woman unsatisfied. Since men and women body work differently, men often fail to understand what the lady needs. But when you are a sub, she can take charge, she can pleasure herself as she likes.
This brings us to the same point that i.e. a powerful woman is always more sexy. Although it is not my job to make them empowered (as I believe woman nowadays is capable of doing anything they want, they don't need your approval), but it brings joy in my life thinking that atleast i can be a very small part of their life which make them feel empowered.
A real man never disrespect a woman. Thus I can say that sub men are not less of a man, may be they are more than that.
**This is completely my perspective and I would like to hear from the ladies about their perspective.