If you are in a relationship that you're trying to keep discreet, for whatever reason, there are certain things that you must keep in mind if you hope to keep the relationship secret. For one, you had better get your stories straight, both yours and the one you plan on having a discreet relationship with. That way, if any questions are asked of either of you, your stories will match. Another thing you need to keep in mind is to keep any evidence of your discreet knowledge put away or hidden from others. It can be a lot of work, more work than many people realize but a discreet relationship can be an exciting and exhilarating experience for both involved. And, if both of you are careful, you'll never get caught.