SIT BACK AND OBSERVE

SIT BACK AND OBSERVE


However much we like being active, there are times when we want to just be passive. I interpret passive in two ways; one is when we just lie there and let the other person/people do everything to and for us, including undressing, touching, licking, sucking and even mounting (which is a whole topic of discussion on its own!). Here I mean the even more passive times when all we want to do is watch.


Most of us will have such times, and that is when we might view some porn on the internet. Surely, though, it has to be far better to watch people we know enjoying themselves rather than professional porn stars that are just doing their job, or strangers putting on a live show such as can be seen in Amsterdam.


Of course, what action you watch will depend on your sexual orientation. I am writing this from the viewpoint of a straight male in mixed straight company, but the principles apply to a gathering of any persuasion.


Although you are not taking part it does not stop you from undressing, or mean that you can’t touch and stimulate yourself. Furthermore, if, for example, you are a male watching in the company of a female, there is no reason why you should not, as you view, mutually masturbate each other (provided it is ok with you both).


Depending on the number in your group, it can sometimes be fun to arrange an ‘entertainment’ evening. I am imagining various scenarios here. The first can be one person putting on a strip show for his/her friends, and using hands and toys to eventually reach conclusion. My second thought is for two volunteers to put on a show, undressing each other, indulging in all manner of foreplay before achieving full satisfaction. A third possibility, to my way of thinking, is a similar performance by three people, which, in my case, will be either two females with a male, or two males with a female, but you might like all females or all males. After the action, it is highly likely that others will be so turned on they will spontaneously have sex, and you can’t beat spontaneity!


Another option is for as many as may be willing to put on a series of striptease shows, each remaining naked once they have finished. Great to watch and It will lead quite naturally to further activities!


Something else that will almost certainly lead to an orgy is to seek a single or couple to volunteer to model for an erotic and pornographic photo session. As I’ve established elsewhere, few people lack both a camera and a smart phone!


Exhibitionists (like me!), are plentiful and we very much enjoy showing ourselves to others, so finding volunteers for all these things should not be too difficult!


It is good to explore all the multitude of options available to us. Erotic and sexual possibilities are virtually endless, so let your mind wander because the only limitation is your imagination. But while you sit and think ............... do some watching!

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