RINGING THE CHANGES
However exciting the experience, if it is repeated in near identical fashion over a period of time it loses its appeal, gradually becoming boring, and that applies to sex just as much as it does to anything else.
Right now I am not concerned with the ‘anything else’. I want to concentrate on sex, and, more accurately, the swinging aspect of sex; to explore how each experience can be varied to keep up the interest (and the erections!).
It is fair to say that, for the most part, many of the same positions will be used because they feel good, and there is no better reason! Therefore we need to look at other ways to tweak the ingredients. My suggestions are by no means exhaustive, and are only proffered in order to stimulate you to find your own ways. When you do, please share them with us!
As a male I can wear various styles of pants. I have a number, mostly red or black, some shiny, some transparent, some with see-through net panels etc, so that I can look slightly different each time. (The photographs show shiny black ones that have a press-stud opening at the front for cock release!)
The girls tend to have a much wider range of glamorous wear available to them. Open crotch panties are a good idea, so that she need not remove them. Also tie-sided ones can be fun for the guy or girl she is with to undo, and nipple exposing bras are alluring. There is a huge range of options.
An otherwise naked female body adorned with jewelry can look fantastic. In addition to earrings and any piercings she may have, there is really no limit to the number of necklaces, bracelets, waist chains and ankle chains that can be sported. Nipple and clitoris attachments can also focus the attention!
As a guy I am happy to wear ‘hippie’ style beads made different lengths to fit the various places. Cock straps and cock rings are usually appreciated, too, and enhance the angle and appearance of the appendage!
In addition to all the above, there are lots of ways to change the atmosphere, which can include varying the background music, being inventive with the lighting, using different rooms and visiting each others’ houses. You may also like, sometimes, to have porn silently playing on the television; it might inspire some adventurous positions, particularly for groups!
Occasionally playing a game at the start of the evening in order to lose clothes and inhibitions can be good. However, if you start with a game this week, don’t do it again next week; unless it’s a totally different game, think of something else. Consider giving each member of your group a turn at deciding the theme for the next meet.
The ideas and possibilities are endless, so keep all the windows and doors of your mind open and let them flood in (in other words, just keep them cumming!).
Have fun, then more fun, and then more fun still! Maintain the excitement!
