Pet Peeves that I have - what's yours?

Spot on, I agree with your observation 100%. It is so funny how people can manage to be arrogant and ignorant at the same time

you look for ads you find someone hot only to see they hav-nt logged in for a month or more if they have found regular fun why dont they say not looking right now there seems to be more and more of these

Have to agree with the general consensus (Missy! slap them with a dead fish!!) I'll read profiles and sometimes, when they are good or have brought a smile to my face, I'll email and tell the member I enjoyed it. Even if the profile says "no guys". I'm not looking for anything other than saying I appreciated the effort they made.

Moving on from that though, I've stopped clicking on the "do you want to be friends" button on profiles. I've realised that probably generates the automatic request that annoys so much. Now I just message and wait (and wait and wait, oh well).

My pet peeve is signing onto the chat room, saying hello and getting not one response - I just don't bother anymore.

We always send current-ish face photos if we establish contact. However,sometimes, whether it is because I am drop dead gorgeous ...or dog ugly.... we receive no response - so we drop them. A polite no thanks will never offend me.

Pet hates:

Pm's uninvited are a pain in the butt but when they pm with a video request as soon as you enter the room gets annoying.

Directors in the room telling all the females what to do on cam but refuse to go on cam themselves

Getting a pmmail asking if you are free tonight when you have never even spoken to the person

People getting annoyed with others preferences - if we all had the same ones the site would be pointless and boring!

People who cant handle rejection and then go off on one for an hour in the room - your only making yourself look stupid not the person who rejected you lol

But the one that makes me laugh the most is when someone starts on a person and that person puts them on ignore and gets on with their chatting and enjoying their time there, while others decide to jump in and start a right argument!! Some people seem to enjoy arguing with others even though it had nothing to do with them in the first place.

Well thats my contribution to the subject!

Thanks to those who have contributed to this discussion - having been a member for just a few months I've learnt alot and will be able to improve my etiquette as a result.

I've got to say I don't really mind being ignored (it's their perogative I guess) or just seeing a random cock shot (it's better than nothing!)

But as for my main peeve - it's the lack of any kind of picture combined with a meet or chat request! How can I enter into conversation when I have literally NO idea who I'm talking too? Especially when I mention this on my profile. I don't understand what would make anyone take that approach!

Amusingly I just recieved a mail from someone whos textspeak abbreviated his words so much I *literally* couldn't understand what he was trying to tell me...

And of course it goes without saying that there was no picture to go with it!

When a guy can't deliver (when Roy the rod becomes Sid the slug), not happened too often but, when it does I think is it me or him?

Just thought of another one! I can remember at least three people who have contacted me and SPELT MY NAME WRONG!!! The mind boggles...

Hi guys, I am new to this site but frankly speaking I am enjoying every bit of it.img src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif"

New one this for us, turning a single guy down politely then receiving an email moaning that he had to increase his membership to contact us so he will be asking for a refund. I guess he thinks if you are on these sites you will be gagging for it with anyone...sad muppet

Hi all love the chance to air my peeves
1 I do not have a profile pic for 2 reasons I am married and very discreet and the ppl I have met or chatted to have been sent it on request and the fact I have a work phone and laptop and it won't upload or and I'm just an idiot and can't work it out
2When you message ppl and they don't have the decency to say sorry not interested as when I was brought up that's what people did I would never be rude or I'll mannered to anyone as its not in my nature and I love a chat as it says on my profile when I get on a train or a bus and try chatting to someone they think I'm nuts x didn't people used to do that and if more did the world would be a happier place
3 I have joined in some of these blogs before and love yours Lilith x hope I spelt it right lol and Roslyn's comments and they are so divers but don't really get any conversational reply ( probably because of no profile pic so that's understandable ) but my Jedi powers sometimes elude me
4 in some of the chat rooms again blanked and there are a few people on here that seem to think the control the room and again don't respondx
5 I am happy to send pics and give my mail or number out for a chat as it can be easier and have a few friends some are friends some with benefits but friends nevertheless

So to conclude they are some of my peeves and some of my reasons for no pic and I am a genuine guy who is up for fun or a chat at any time and will always answer anything honestly
I will chat to anyone regardless of their race x belief or gender persuasion
Sensual great blog and I wish you all, all the best and thank you for reading this of you've got this far

Thank you for letting me air my views

Dan

Ps don't forget to write lol img src="imagesadultemoticons007.gif"

Pet hate , when you have emailed each what you like and don't like, even on the phone, then they turn up and you realise they have taken no notice, FOOKING hygiene come on for FOOK sake. Me and kat ban each other from sex fo a week when we meeting so she is nice and clean and fresh ? I'll shave her on the night I'll shave, we will have a bath, aftershave, perfume, I'll do the house top to bottom nice candles burning, then the meet and you thinking why did we bother, we have a shower even a bath in fact even running water just ask or even say give us two mins till I go and freshen up, I have not had the balls to tell another woman she smell down below the same as kat has never told some one there willy stinks, we just hat I when people don't listen to what you say and to all of the above xxx

It wasn't aimed at you so don't worry and I seen a bee today the size of a football x I tell you what it put me off x lol just airing my peeves and trying to explain why I've no pic and it's not a sinister ploy x

Thanks for your understanding and again it's not aimed at anyone but a generalization and I think your both very witty
It just that this forum gave me a chance to air my views And straight and welcome responses x maybe I should put it on my profile so thanks for the chance sensual

I do love a chat and as I say anyone can ask me anything anytime so feel free
Dan xx