Lets start with SEX. What more do we men (I can only speak for men as I am one) think about other than sex. We look see, fantasize masturbate and most of us have had sex, you know physichal pleasure withOUT love. Sex is our focus and we need to be more honest about that.
I have had AMAZING sex without love and I have had bad sex without LOVE. The difference lies in of course many things:
Does your partner turn you on? Do u turn them on? Did you trick them to have sex aka is this just good honest lust rearing its wet swollen head or are you taking advantage of someone?
I have had amazing sex with strangers. So amazing that I have written about it. It is so wonderful when 2 people connect and express themselves sexually. I have actually been lucky enough to have many wonderful engagements of this nature and I have had very few.
The keys to success for me are:
Please your partner first! I am very oral and love to make my partners orgasm again and again. Watching them orgasm makes me feel special as if we are honest this does not always happen.
Be patient, no raping or forcing but a few years back I stopped accepting being teased. I mean we are all adults and if you lead me on then you need to be pleasured. Lets not play games. But if you are just being a tease well then you will be safe but never entertained again. I mean grow up.
LISTEN and watch. Many of my partners do not express themselves verbally but their body is sending a plethora of messages so pay attention.
Alcohol can help lower inhibitions but I prefer to be sober just like a sexual athlete, I want my partners to be also. The clearer your head the better the orgasms and lust.
Ideally we just connect and then pleasure each other.
How many will admit that they have had GREAT sex without LOVE?
Next is love. Love is wonderful, I have been in love. When in love sex is also great but I think more of the things connected to sex are better. And we are "supposed" to be in love we are trained to seek out love.
Love has dire consequences though. The worst emotional pain of my life has come from love that is destroyed. That hurts.
For me I seek good friends, people I respect admire and lust to have amazing sex with. Love has punished me and while one day this may change for now I simply wish to be known as the man who can make u cum!!!! A man that you can trust, a man that will help you but a man that makes u cum!
Lets all have more great sex and to those of you in love I respect and admire that but I would probably still wnat to make your wife CUM.
