We've all watched and read about plenty of kinky sex ideas (we'll never forget you, Fifty Shades of Grey), but how many of us really take those desires beyond the books we read and into our bedrooms? If you're looking to shake things up, there are plenty of ways to do it. From the tame to the wild, we've rounded up the 31 best kinky sex ideas to try out.1. Take it to a mirror.The next time things are heating up, whisper in your partner's ear just how sexy they look—and suggest you get an even better view. Lead them to a mirror and lean yourself in front of it, allowing them to enter you from behind or reach around to stimulate your clitoris. You'll get to watch them enjoy themselves, and they'll get a view of you from the back and front. It's also fun to lean a mirror next to your bed, so you can watch as you get it on from different positions.
2. Talk dirty.Turn up the heat on your dirty talk by describing the sensations you're feeling, giving gentle encouraging directions, and telling them what you want to do to them before you do it. You may also find that whispering about how a touch feels or being forward with what you want enhances what you're experiencing in the moment.3. Get icy.We're not talking about the old cliché of popping an ice cube in your mouth before giving oral sex. (Though if that does it for you, by all means go for it!) Ice cubes are the cheapest sex toy around, perfect for trailing over your partner's body when things get steamy for a chillingly good sensation.4. Send a racy text.Be as brave as your vocabulary permits. You can send a simple, suggestive message—"I can't wait to touch you tonight," for example—or something more bold, such as a step-by-step guide to what you'll do to them the second they walk through the door. Need ideas? We've got ’em.5. Tie them up.Maybe you've backed off the idea of bondage because buying handcuffs or other restraints is just too freaky for you. If that's the case, try something a little more subtle, like a tie or scarf. Playfully wrap it around their wrists and secure them to a chair and go down on them. Or, if you want a more submissive role, ask your partner if they'd like to tie you to the headboard and have their way with you. We're guessing you're going to get a resounding yes.7. Use a blindfold.You can take that same tie and use it as a blindfold, shielding your partner's eyes from your next moves, or taking away your own sight while he or she goes to town on your body. When you block off one sense, your body intensifies its others. Touch will feel extra electric and surprising.
7. Nibble and bite.Nibbling and biting during sex is a sign of passion. It's a little naughty and a lot hot—the perfect way to show how turned on you are. While you're making out, test the waters to see whether your partner is okay with a little teeth by gently nibbling on their lip. You can also gently drag your teeth over your partner's shoulders in between sensual open-mouth kisses on their skin.8. Try ultra-relaxing foreplay.Two words for you: naked massage. In these stressful times, we could all use some extra TLC, so offer your partner a sensual massage. For this you need nothing more than the lotion you already keep by your bedside—and to be prepared for things to heat up quickly.9. Dress up.If you're living your days in sweats, dressing up right before you get naked can be a good way to get yourself in the mood. And why not try a uniform? If you're looking to get out of a rut, dressing up as a doctor or a French maid could be a fun experiment.10. Spank them.Spanking can be hot. That being said, it's best not to give a whop out of nowhere that will just startle your partner and kill the moment. Next time you're having that kind of passionate, animalistic sex, give them a light smack on the butt cheek with an open palm. If they seem into it, you can spank them a little harder. Studies have shown that arousal raises our pain threshold, so get after it!11. Or pull their hair.Don't underestimate the appeal of a firm tug on your partner's hair. The next time they're going down on you, run your fingers through their hair and get a grip. Give it a gentle pull and see how they like it. The trick to making it feel good rather than hurt is to grab a bigger handful hair.12. Get loud.Don't be afraid to express yourself. There's an incredible freedom in vocalizing what you want and how good you're feeling—and your lover is definitely going to be all ears.13. Let your partner watch you masturbate.This definitely requires some boldness, but putting on a show by letting your significant other watch you pleasure yourself can be deeply empowering. Look straight into their eyes while you do it, and it won't be long before they're begging you to let them take over.14. Drip hot oil on your partner with a massage candle.Don't be scared: Massage candles are safe and will not burn you. They're specifically formulated to heat up and turn into a sensuous oil that you can rub all over your partner (just not inside your partner—it's not meant to be used as lube). After the candle turns to liquid oil, blow it out and it will stay liquefied for 30 minutes, which is plenty of time to gently drip it onto your partner and give them a spicy rubdown
15. Leave the windows open.Engage in a little light exhibition by leaving the blinds open or the window cracked, depending on how far you want to take it. The chance that someone could see you—or maybe just hear you—makes things all the more exciting.16. Experiment with role play.There's a reason role play is one of the most common sex fantasies: It gives you a chance to let loose and act in a way that you wouldn't necessarily behave ordinarily, and that's incredibly freeing. Whether it's boss and secretary, doctor and patient, student and professor, or anything else, role play is a harmless way to live out a fantasy and get kinky.17. Play with sex toys.Hit up a sex shop or online sex store and stock up on naughty goodies. From edible panties to vibrators, there are plenty of options that will spice things up and help you get your freak on. Not sure where to
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