As I find myself at this point in life ,61 single and an over average desire for intimacy and all that involves my own and my partners stimulation. All leading to that amazing feeling two people can experience together.I’ve found that my stimulation needs to be intense and that comes from me watching listening and feeling my partner build to her orgasm. Forplay is paramount for me and giving trumps receiving . Visual is huge and the scent and taste of a women are huge triggers . Unselfish lover .❤️