Cuckold Husbands are no less of a Man....rather they are Supermen...

It was only after recently a female friend of my husband commented on her that cuckolds are "bad performers" in bed which hinted on his sexual prowess. My husband got a little upset but he did not want to rebut this female since she was a casual friend from our social friend circle and not from swinging lifestyle. So, he said the more he discusses on this topic the more things unfold about us as a swinger couple!


But there was a lot in his mind to share and rebut which he decided to hold. When he discussed this with me then I too agreed with his thoughts that it was in anyway rude for any casual friend to comment on someone you recently met and if it was disclosed to her that he is a cuckold. Even if someone is a Cuckold & has reduced sexual prowess in bed, still it is not really said on his face. Every person has something extra when he/she lacks at something.


This incident led me to come here and vent out and write this blog so that it reaches to more such people who think that "Cuckold Husbands are less of a Man". Infact, I feel they are more of a man because it is very difficult for any husband to let his wife freely have sex with any man she wishes, regardless of the fact that he is comfortable with that man or not! It is a daring task to find appropriate men for his wife for intimate & sexual relationship. Such husbands need quite a heart to be able to watch their wives having sex with other men in front of them on a continual basis!


It is very natural to lose sexual spark after a few years of marriage within any couple, else the concept of ś year itch" would not even exist. This concept was derived after a lot of research and statistics taken from many couples. Thus, it is a known fact that most couples or at least one of the spouse in that couple lose sexual interest in the other partner which is normal. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Also, it is not necessary that the man you are married to must always be able to satisfy you sexually always! This is a myth. That is the reason why couples like us are here on such websites looking for compatible swingers to connect and play with and I do not feel there is anything wrong in it and it should not be looked down upon as a demeaning or illegal act as long as the couple is happy doing it and there is no cheating and no one is hurt.


Cuckoldry is one such aspect where some couples get back the spark what they were lacking and in my opinion it is okay if there are husbands who become cuckold in the process. I feel they are SUPERMEN (cuck husbands) who can actually do it. It needs a lot of courage, resilience & dedication initially to be able to reach a point after which they start enjoying.


The transition from a being a normal husband to a cuckold husband is quite a stressful & embarrassing journey for a husband & it is not possible for a man who only thinks about himself and not his wife. Such husbands genuinely love their wives and are dedicated to their wife's pleasure and with time they also find pleasure in their wife's fun. It is a difficult task for such cuckold husbands to find compatible men online and then train them to be of your wife's interest and then present them to your wife for her approval and more...and then accept a complete submissive role in that relationship!


So, my appeal to all swingers here is that never demean or embarrass or humiliate such husbands who are cuckolds and do not think that they are any less of a MAN. It is because they accepted to be cuckolded that you are able to get to sleep with so many men and are open to extramarital relationships with any other man you chose to, with your husbands approval! Could you have done that?


Give a thought!


I do have a few boyfriends in different cities and even 1 serious extramarital relationship with my college time boyfriend but my genuine love for my husband is untouched!


RESPECT THEM !


Loving Wife- Ritika

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