What completes a male quest towards the true sexual self?:
1. Discovering and exploring both sides of male sexuality, the Masculinity Giver and Taker. Hence, in order to be a better love making man with the wanted woman, it may be an enlightening path to be aware of giving and receiving the full thrust of masculinity in him and onto him. The symbiosis can get to be so powerful, the desire to be the other male can overcome the male in quest yet the true compass of his masculinity will be always embedded in his genes, hormones and behaviour pattern. The fluid roles of a romantic homoerotic relationship are a complete different story, leading in itself to wonders for the actors involved; for the mere experimental males once the ejaculation is achieved the reality check is there to be seen.
A male-to-male encounter can of course contain a certain degree of intimacy of touching, caressing and bodies enjoying each other’s leading to a deeper connection between the males involved - the more in the session, the merrier, MMM’s, a.s.o.. But it remains what it is for the male in quest - ONLY a temporary connection, a meridian to chart a better sexual version of himself. With the woman, any woman, moreover with the Woman of the Hour, that connection totalises all the coordinates of all the planets of all the known galaxies. And this in only one of the seconds of their togetherness. Encompassing the Giver and Taker cycle within this togetherness.In a nutshell this specific sexual quest is most probably for some males only, males that are eager to indulge in conscious bisexual exploits, very important males not intoxicated in any possible manner with drugs or alcohol (here I cannot stress this enough). This way may evolve to a better understanding of what they’re after. Of their predator identity. Actually here we can reach a very interesting crosspoint with the one of world’s most renewed warriors’ cast - the samurai, that where fearful swordsmen and also bisexual males, after our today standards (some even complete homosexuals).
2. Who are these males we talk about? Well, certainly not all the cock bearers but only those that are curious enough - at first to try something borderline new, a ‘why the fuck not?’ new. This may start in males’ brotherhoods, in the camaraderie spirit, going from frotting to having a MMF together with one special guy, to going deeper in developing some one-to-one or one-to-many threesomes, foursomes, whereas depending of their inner exploring capacities, they can experience the plenty: BDMS, male saunas, glory hole, bukkake, a.s.o. in effect everything that supposedly was done till then with women. And in the best case scenario is merely a colourful variation of their love life with their beloved female pair, risking getting diminished in their eyes but actually adding to it some extra sexy vulnerability.
3. How are these male wired? Basically very good observers , fine analysts of the generic human behaviour and quite critics to the world and to the themselves, nonetheless. Often narcissists they are in love with their own cock and overall body sight and odours, admiration mostly fuelled by the women they came across.
4. What is the actual learning that can come out of it? Learning to progressively taint the male sexual urge, especially in our hyper sexualised world by projecting sexual acts with another male that afterwards propels new sexual energy with women. A sexual loop that provides essential knowledge, hands-on knowledge (pun intended 2).In more plain words not being in the lame and mainstream crazy race of a sexual act for the orgasm-by-ejaculation - in fact for those yes! blessed yet short 6 to 8 seconds but to indulge as a male Giver to a male Receiver, a giver that knows exactly what to expect from a blow job and knows the erotic zones chart, some of them usually neglected, a.s.o. Taking the time in pleasuring to win time in seeking deeper meaning of future pleasures.
5. The final frontier: anal penetration. Accessible to many playful erotic MF couples via the vast array of strap-ons and sexual toys - that are actually a highly serious play.
A penetrated male has to perform completely opposite to his known, up until then, sexual paradigm. Being something new to him he has to really reinvent his style of fucking at first. He has to push, slide and glide his behind, onto the shaft of the Giver, as a Taker, and has also to be aware, at all times, to try to keep it in him as opposed to when he usually thrusts controlling the parameters of the action. The initial momentum to defeat is in itself a challenge for the male’s ass, because as prepared with previous sexual toys penetration sessions as he could get, or lubed and rimmed pre-cock entering, receiving it gradually at the lowest possible speed (ideally, but then again he is not any longer controlling the thrusting and that in itself brings some first regrets on the table) he has to start to pull himself, as said above, opposing his natural instinct of movement. It depends entirely of the Giver’s ability to calm things pushing the ass against his hot pulsing cock - either curved or straight shaped, bringing a lot of grunts and pain. So regrets of this new role switching may continue to flow into play.Then, most probably, from one point on it allows a different penetration alchemy from those known till then, replacing pain with pleasure. The diversity of possible sexual positions can make the intercourse relatable and recognisable like the reassuring familiarity of penetrating women: either retro fucking variety, with the creme-de la creme - doggy style, or butterfly one or the cowgirl, well, actually literally the cowboy, all in all and one after another the sexual positions he himself is using to please his female partners. Nonetheless using the cinematic power of imagination he can now be the one that, in the heat of the moment, such as his females’ memorable lovers, twist the moves and the control of these by climbing up, with the palms on the other male’s chest and arms fingering his mouth, in sync with pushing and pressing the ass in fire on the shaft, feeling it the other male’s deep and all - cock length and the balls protruding his perineal zone meanwhile his own gone crazy cock is moving like a ship’s mast in stormy weather most probably ejaculating several times until the Giver finally gives the final gift of a journey’s initiation: volcanically exploding inside him with.
