It was only after recently a female friend of my husband commented on her that cuckolds are "bad performers" in bed which hinted on his sexual prowess. My husband got a little upset but he did not want to rebut this female since she was a casual friend from our social friend circle and not from swinging lifestyle. So, he said the more he discusses on this topic the more things unfold about us as a swinger couple!
But there was a lot in his mind to share and rebut which he decided to hold. When he discussed this with me then I too agreed with his thoughts that it was in anyway rude for any casual friend to comment on someone you recently met and if it was disclosed to her that he is a cuckold. Even if someone is a Cuckold & has reduced sexual prowess in bed, still it is not really said on his face. Every person has something extra when he/she lacks at something.
This incident led me to come here and vent out and write this blog so that it reaches to more such people who think that "Cuckold Husbands are less of a Man". Infact, I feel they are more of a man because it is very difficult for any husband to let his wife freely have sex with any man she wishes, regardless of the fact that he is comfortable with that man or not! It is a daring task to find appropriate men for his wife for intimate & sexual relationship. Such husbands need quite a heart to be able to watch their wives having sex with other men in front of them on a continual basis!
It is very natural to lose sexual spark after a few years of marriage within any couple, else the concept of ś year itch" would not even exist. This concept was derived after a lot of research and statistics taken from many couples. Thus, it is a known fact that most couples or at least one of the spouse in that couple lose sexual interest in the other partner which is normal. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Also, it is not necessary that the man you are married to must always be able to satisfy you sexually always! This is a myth. That is the reason why couples like us are here on such websites looking for compatible swingers to connect and play with and I do not feel there is anything wrong in it and it should not be looked down upon as a demeaning or illegal act as long as the couple is happy doing it and there is no cheating and no one is hurt.
Cuckoldry is one such aspect where some couples get back the spark what they were lacking and in my opinion it is okay if there are husbands who become cuckold in the process. I feel they are SUPERMEN (cuck husbands) who can actually do it. It needs a lot of courage, resilience & dedication initially to be able to reach a point after which they start enjoying. The transition from a being a normal husband to a cuckold husband is quite a stressful & embarrassing journey for a husband & it is not possible for a man who only thinks about himself and not his wife. Such husbands genuinely love their wives and are dedicated to their wife's pleasure and with time they also find pleasure in their wife's fun. It is a difficult task for such cuckold husbands to find compatible men online and then train them to be of your wife's interest and then present them to your wife for her approval and more...and then accept a complete submissive role in that relationship!
So, my appeal to all swingers here is that never demean or embarrass or humiliate such husbands who are cuckolds and do not think that they are any less of a MAN. It is because they accepted to be cuckolded that you are able to get to sleep with so many men and are open to extramarital relationships with any other man you chose to, with your husbands approval! Could you have done that? Give a thought!
I do have a few boyfriends in different cities and even 1 serious extramarital relationship with my college time boyfriend but my genuine love for my husband is untouched!
RESPECT THEM !
Loving Wife- Ritika
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3:40 am Tuesday, 24th November, 2020
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1:30 am Friday, 27th November, 2020
Your writing skills are very impressive, I agree with your words 100100. |
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11:50 am Tuesday, 1st December, 2020
I do respect her views, it's a human nature to have something different and new. Some come out in open others do not. So one cannot put everyone in the same category. It's ok if both agree and doesn't disturb their personal life. But one thing everyone must keep in mind the limits. One must have things under control. |
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3:31 pm Tuesday, 1st December, 2020
Good for you that you love and respect your man. I was asked to perform the task of third man about a year ago. For me that was not very easy with hubby there. But seeing the joy on his face made the job even better for all three of us. We all had a glass of wine together after. He has asked me to help again. Bravo for him, and real man. |
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Hi |
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I am from Chennai u we can meet me for open and long relationship |
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12:56 pm Wednesday, 2nd December, 2020
LOVE your hubby is essential he is your lifetime support for many things but needs are to be fulfilled so do not restrict yourself and enjoy safely as much as you can. |
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Hi iwant to meet |
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1:07 pm Wednesday, 2nd December, 2020
That's something well said Ritika. That's something noble of a guy seeing his madam not necessarily wife being tasted by another guy in front of him. I've heard of cuckold hubbies conducting competition for the best guy having sex with the best satisfying postures.Nothing to embarrass anyone in this extra marital ventures. Some speak of it,do it,some have it in their mind,but are hesitant with fear of being denounced by society,relatives and pears. According to a friend couple of mine an ex Friends Forum who offered a few threesome for me a few years back,have told me that almost every second or third woman has in mind of how it would be tasting the other female's guy or another guy other other guy other than her hubby or boyfriend,but their fear of their modesty being denounced by other females and families,they control or suppress their feelings for it. |
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1:09 pm Wednesday, 2nd December, 2020
Hi,All is well. |
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1:09 pm Wednesday, 2nd December, 2020
Really it's requires guts to talk about that salute to you 🙏 |
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1:21 pm Wednesday, 2nd December, 2020
Everyone can't touch this but a class can do |
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1:25 pm Wednesday, 2nd December, 2020
Good to know of being sincere to your untouched husband |
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1:41 pm Wednesday, 2nd December, 2020
Hi. |
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Very hot indeed. Hope to meet you both some |
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like very much girls and women and i give respect for ladies |
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3:05 pm Wednesday, 2nd December, 2020
Very true Ritika. To share your wife itself requires guts that a true man can have. A luving hubby will care for his wife, give her the freedom and her happiness is his happiness... |
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Hi |
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nice story my wife since you can't rock hard she has no interence in sex.l ask her to dress sexy by leaving blouse open with no bra.l ask her in summer to wear short shorts to show alittle clit. |
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very nicely written |
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6:22 pm Friday, 4th December, 2020
well said.... it is the pleasure, trust and respect that makes couples in this lifestyle more secure in their relationship. |
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6:34 pm Friday, 4th December, 2020
Thank you everyone who actually read my post and responded. I am surprised for some motherfuckers who commented here asking me to sleep with them!! |
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6:23 am Saturday, 5th December, 2020
Nice blog, really appreciate! The duty is of both's to keep the spark if they really love each other. Apart from allowing partner to have relation with the for her pleasure it's the pleasure of the cuckold too. He is really a Superman and Superbman.🕺🏽💞 |
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6:23 am Saturday, 5th December, 2020
Nice blog, really appreciate! The duty is of both's to keep the spark if they really love each other. Apart from allowing partner to have relation with the for her pleasure it's the pleasure of the cuckold too. He is really a Superman and Superbman.🕺🏽💞 |
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Hi |
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Hi |
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💕I Love u |
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Hi |
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4:03 am Monday, 7th December, 2020
I want to meet with you & do sex with you |
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Hi sexy |
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6:33 pm Monday, 7th December, 2020
Hi |
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10:33 pm Tuesday, 8th December, 2020
So Hot looking |
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8:21 pm Wednesday, 9th December, 2020
Hi |
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1:05 pm Thursday, 10th December, 2020
Truly said. |
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5:37 pm Saturday, 12th December, 2020
👌 |
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Hi sexi |
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8:18 am Friday, 8th January, 2021
Hi I want fuck you ritika |
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9:45 pm Friday, 8th January, 2021
Any chance |
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1:47 am Thursday, 14th January, 2021
Hello |
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3:07 pm Thursday, 14th January, 2021
Hi Ritika u sex with me |
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10:27 pm Thursday, 21st January, 2021
Great words Ritika, It was always a topic for discussion. Loved your content and way of presenting things. Kudos... 👍👌 |
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1:02 pm Wednesday, 18th October, 2023
Cucold husbands are real heros as they are dedicating their wives to others for full satisfaction of wives. Great job they are doing. |
