‘SAFE SEXUAL PRACTICE IN SWINGING - UNVEILED’ , A couple’s concern with guidance.

Swinging is where couples or singles meet like minded people to have consensual sexual pleasure ( can be straight or bi-sexual). When having multiple sex partners outside married life, you are more vulnerable to sexually transmitted diseases. It is important to educate oneself about safe practice to safeguard themselves and the people they meet who trust them.


Couples/singles are able to explore sexual pleasure in new dimensions in this lifestyle and risky sex isn’t a new thing. It gives a sense of adventurous feeling, something some crave for. When asked about risk, what they feel is , “ I feel lucky I didn’t catch std.” or “ I’m clean and I ASSUME they are clean too.” Sounds a bit irresponsible. YOU CAN CATCH A COLD BY SHAKING HANDS WITH SOMEONE AND NOTHING IS 100% SAFE, EVEN SEX. However we can lower the risk and still indulge in kinkiest sexual fantasies.



Less risky activities.


- Swingers can derive pleasure from soft swap that doesn’t involve penetration. Couples enjoy soft swap with another followed by penetrative sex with their married partner in the same room . You’re less vulnerable in this compared to full swap.



Get tested and communicate about safe sex.


- Swingers embraced this lifestyle together with consent. Since both are into this, there is no hiding between them. Get tested together and avoid mental stress. They can have a set of rules upfront on how they can protect themselves and who they meet.



- Talk about sexual histories with the people they plan on meeting, like do they get tested? When did they last get tested? Sexual exposure recently? Whether they practice safe sex? -don’t be shy or hesitate to ask thinking IT CAN PUT THEM OFF. You’re planning on meeting LIKE MINDED PEOPLE WHO ARE UNDERSTANDING and share the same value as you, it helps you be safe and the people you meet. Prevention is better than cure.



Condoms.


- With the latest different types of condoms such as thin ,ribbed and flavors , it not only allows you to be safe but also to enjoy sex.



Saying ‘NO’


- If you feel, the swingers you’re planning on meeting doesn’t match with your interest or suspect them on not being open about safe sex practice, don’t hesitate to decline meeting them. It can be tempting to dive and explore your fantasies with another but not worth the subsequent risks. There are many like minded , honest swingers who you can meet , not just one you declined to meet.





Being safe and practicing safe sexual practice allows you to lead a healthy sexual life long term and build your trust points among the swingers as it benefits them too in terms of safety. Once you have trustoworthy circle, you can try anything you prefer along with your hot wife or cuckold husband/bull. You’re doing yourself, and the society a favour by being safe. Enjoy sex in a healthy responsible way.

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