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THE BDSM LIFESTYLE 👸

3:23 pm Monday, 9th November, 2020

This is a lifestyle of balance, Dominants and submission, tops & bottoms. The vanilla world and the fetish Universe has to have balance. They can coexist in O/our hearts, bodies, and minds. If you are fortunate enough to travel down the fetish rabbit hole, Y/you need to make sure to have an open mind, a trusting heart and joyful soul for your journey.In this journey you will in encounter barriers, steep walls and even tall mountain ranges. Be patience, because you will have to find your own way around them. If you are lucky you will find friends and guides to assist you to your destinations. If you think this lifestyle is just about kinky sex, please turn around and go back to the vanilla world. This is a lifestyle not basic bedroom bondage. It can be fulled with pain and suffering, pleasure and passion. It depends on path you choose to follow.The most important part of this journey that you must learn is self control, this goes for Dominants and submissives a like. Controlling yourself is absolutely essential before you really take that first step.This wonderful lifestyle has strong pillars that hold it together. Good communication, honesty, trust, and respect are some of them. The use of your senses are vital and critical in this universe. This isn’t a primitive or casual sexual experience anymore. This lifestyle is like a sentence. The wonderful sexual gratification is only the period at the end of it. However, if all of the emotions and passions are used properly the period will turn into an exclamation mark!!




Comments
12:58 am Thursday, 12th November, 2020

Well written!

7:12 am Friday, 13th November, 2020

Hello how r u..

11:52 pm Thursday, 19th November, 2020

Ma'am thank you for this post

7:36 am Tuesday, 24th November, 2020

Hello gorgeous 

7:37 am Tuesday, 24th November, 2020

5:41 pm Tuesday, 24th November, 2020

Well said!  thank you for that clarification,  still wish to know more, perhaps you understand why?

1:44 am Thursday, 26th November, 2020

Thankyou for sharing..I'm new and trying to learn

12:18 am Tuesday, 1st December, 2020

very well said

10:26 am Tuesday, 1st December, 2020

Hello gorgeous

1:17 pm Tuesday, 1st December, 2020

Very well put

10:12 am Saturday, 5th December, 2020

Well said. 

10:07 pm Sunday, 6th December, 2020

Im just gonna float in the depth, that is you for a bit, dont mind me. 

12:48 am Friday, 18th December, 2020

miatreaa can i be your boot cleaner?

2:51 am Sunday, 20th December, 2020

Need this in my life

7:44 am Monday, 21st December, 2020

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

11:36 am Friday, 25th December, 2020

I was made to be a toy for any who desire to use me

6:36 pm Saturday, 26th December, 2020

I like EXPERIENCE  time with u

8:55 pm Monday, 28th December, 2020

I imagine with that write up, you are a very popular and busy dom. After reading this? I already trust you to be loving with me and a wonderful teacher. Stay amazing sweet woman!The downside is I live in Missouri...

5:53 am Wednesday, 30th December, 2020

How do I get you to become my dominatrix?

3:26 am Thursday, 31st December, 2020

Happy new year!

7:27 am Thursday, 31st December, 2020

Hi. I like what you have written in your profile. Hope we can chat and maybe become friends or more. 

11:25 am Saturday, 2nd January, 2021

so hot

8:53 am Monday, 4th January, 2021

 This should be the public mantra for all who enter this world.

7:55 am Monday, 11th January, 2021

Well said!  Although some of what you said was over my head. But I detect good will and love in your philosophy, and flexibility.  And it seems the strong don't have to adhere to cold rigid rules or bash the weak in a damaging way in your philosophy, and that is needed.   Sorry if my words sound corny.

12:23 pm Monday, 11th January, 2021

Wow, very well expressed and a great viewpoint of the lifestyle. Thank you!🤜👊

2:56 pm Friday, 15th January, 2021

Hi u love me

5:49 am Tuesday, 19th January, 2021

Let’s make my . Into a !👽

5:49 am Tuesday, 19th January, 2021

Let’s make my . Into a !👽

10:23 pm Saturday, 30th January, 2021

hi luv

4:21 am Tuesday, 2nd February, 2021

Well said....hmmmm

7:40 am Wednesday, 3rd February, 2021

Very well put Mistress.  for your age you are doing extremely well in your understanding.  I like your insights an if you were closer, I would invite you to a talk in my dungeon, however a quiet hotel lounge would suffice for the honest and open conversation I would treasure with you.  But alas, maybe at a different time.  Thanks for your expose.  I see you as the next generation of our side, which is too deep to totally understand.  I was thrilled to read your reflections.

12:33 pm Wednesday, 3rd February, 2021

Sounds good!!😊

9:41 pm Tuesday, 9th February, 2021

I believe in Wife Led Marriage 

2:02 am Sunday, 14th February, 2021

Looking for a mistress  in the fort smith, Arkansas to train me in the ways of the bdsm lifestyle. (NEWBIE)

6:36 pm Monday, 9th August, 2021

Hello mistress, how are you. 

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