Our Guide for Starting Your Swinging life (A Practical Guide Part-1)

Since many people here are mostly single and registering as couple to start this lifestyle, thought of sharing some of our thoughts to start this lifestyle without any hassles.


First thing you need is, to convince your partner regarding your desires, especially about swinging. Swinging is not about changing your partners & just having sex.


Just remember if you have not become satisfied in your bed with your partner, don't think sleeping with others might satisfy you, in such case best solution is for you both to talk it out.


Swinging is about building up the atmosphere of warmth and belonging. So, you can start with Exhibitionism or Voyeurism Intentions as baby steps and then move on to same room same partner (SRSP), but never hardcore for sure during the first attempt as those thoughts turnoff many.


The swapping lifestyle has emotional consequences that have to be dealt with by the couple together. The first and foremost is you both must be in love. Without the existence of love in a relationship, this lifestyle can be very dangerous because nothing is more important than their own partner.


Another common response to moral and philosophical objections is that there is a difference between physical intimacy and love. Therefore, it can be very lengthy and time-consuming process, therefore, the time can depend on each other understanding of their need. You both must be satisfied in your married life, ie. in terms of Sex, Financial stability, and finally family relations to begin with.


Swinging isn’t for everyone. Couples need to discuss between themselves, the different factors including jealousy, self-esteem, or any relationship problems, prior to entering into this lifestyle. If any of these areas are of major concern to either person, then chances are, you aren’t ready to enjoy this lifestyle and all of its benefits.


All of you will presumably have the same type of anxieties and these are more mind-boggling and complicated than in a typical situation. So, think about talking via telephone or chatting on a webcam before you meet.


Before gathering anybody or meeting anyone, try to discover as much data as you could about them, and furnish them with sufficient information about yourselves, to avoid any untoward incident and distasteful experience (for them as well as you).


Meeting for a dinner is an incredible first ‘date’ with another couple. If you’re 100% doubtful about whether you’ll like the couple or not, then plan your first meeting at any coffee shop or any bar for a short time to get to know each other.


Do consent with the other couple that the first date won’t result in unwanted surprises. Swapping generally shows signs of improvement after a couple of adventures with the same couple. It’s difficult to bond with someone the very first time you engage with them. Therefore, analyze and then consent with each other about the place where you want to meet for your adventures.


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