Threesomes and why to have it ?

I've been in this lifestyle for close to 16 years i think. Initially i was in this lifestyle when this lifestyle itself was not mature enough and when people were still discovering the internet. As per my assessment, the lifestyle started picking up in the last 10 years and more so in the past 5 years. More and more couples are starting to fantasise about threesomes and swaps in a HEALTHY way. Previously, i used to see the wife's forced into this which i used to abhor. But of late, lot of women are getting into lifestyle willingly and starting to fantasise in different ways. I think it's a trend in a healthy direction. Threesome opens up couples to a whole new level of understanding between them. That's the most important part of the threesome. It's not the new girl or guy touching you but the trust and freedom that the couple gains on each other. When the husband is touching the other woman, the wife may initially feel jealous but gradually turns around when she realises that his man will always be his man but he's acting on his fantasies and he will come back to her no matter what. So once she starts feeling secure, the fun begins. And guess what? Some girls start exploring more after this with the other woman and usually realises that she is either bi-curious or a proper bisexual. And that's always a man's fantasy.
As for the husband, when he starts seeing his wife being touched by another man, right in front of him it actually a very very erotic experience for him for which we have different words. But to be honest, we should just encapsulate it with any words but experience those beautiful mixed emotions internally.
I strongly believe and practically saw that couples who have a healthy and open relationships in our current generation end up having long lasting relationships. For the previous generation, the options were limited when it comes to contacts or fantasies or social media or porn. So their thinking was rightly limited to that extent.
Our generation now is sort of overloaded with content from all directions. Netflix, Social media, site where we can connect with like minded people in terms of this lifestyle, porn. So many, so many things. So it's very naturally to think in this direction. So there is no need for couples who are exploring in to this to have some morality issues about this. This is a new generation things and this is gonna mature even more with times to come. Accept this lifestyle happily and lead a happy and SAFE lifestyle.
As a guy who has met lot of singles and couples over the years it's been an exhilarating ride. The ups and downs. The disappointments and the excitement. I've seen a lot. But as always, Yeh Dil Maange More.

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