DECODING THE BLACK vis-a-vis INDIAN PHENOMENON

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​A long cherished fantasy of getting blacked had finally been realised last month. It was fanatsy which I endeavoured to achieve since long however for one reason or the other I could not fulfill them earlier, untill finally the day of reckoning came on 25 Sep 2020. I was yet to recover from the after effects of the 25 Sep session when I again decided to repeat the same cycle of events however with a differect BBC i.e. Our second meet with another guy.

I intend writing descriptive blogs on the black sessions as and when I get time for it.

However, as a precursor to the blogs which I intend writing, here are few relevant aspects of the phenomenon which may be handy to cpls who intend going black.

1. Why go black when Indian bulls are adequately good?

- IR sex or BBC is very much relevant and in vogue in western world of hot wifing & cuckold. Though it is yet to be prevalent in a large footprint in India however, as the time progresses, couples and females have been seen becoming more vocal and eager to enjoy the company of a black stud. Going black is what many couples fantasize because of their presumed sexual prowess, stamina and cock size. Besides the copulation of two human body of different race and skin colour adds to visual kink and fun. When the husband sees his fair skin wife in the arms of huge black man it is a sight to behold and I assure that it will always b a part of your roleplay later on.

But in the Indian context the perspective of this BLACK PHENOMENON is somewhat different as compared to the western world of swinging because of the paucity in number of black bulls. The number of genuine black bulls are much lesser in india when compared with western countries. The black bull here are mainly students persuing higher educations, few working in MNCs and others mainly as linguistic teachers in some educational institutes (that is what our interactions with number of black guy reveals).

Though by and large all the couples are generally aware of the safety and privacy aspects of this lifestyle however I feel there is nothing wrong in revisiting the DOs and DON'Ts again.

DOs

1. While exploring the option for going black it is always better to connect with those guys who have references of other cpl or single friends.

2 Checkout for those guys who have reviews.

3. My experience say it is always better to go for working professionals be it in MNCs or other company or organisations of International repute. It is always better to avoid students.

4. Please check out for the authencity of the profile. Pls do not go by his profile picture. Ask for cam confirmation or verified pic. Alternately, if the same is not available in his profile ask the guy to send a selfie showing a sign as predetermined by you. This is important since there are many fake profiles which are posing as black guys. Recently i.e. two days back when a cpl friend of ours did contact a very well known profile from Mumbai. He then send pictures on TG. However, out of suspicion our friends asked this black guy to send a instant selfie with V sign. I swear the guy vanished and blocked our friends.

5. Hotels and resorts are better for meet up. However, book separate rooms for safety and security. Never ever check into the hotel together. It is preferable that your rooms are on the same floor. Use ur ingenuity to get rooms on the same floor.

6. My two experiences say that Black guys are fond of various fetishes ...mainly cloth fetish like stockings, garter, crotchless thongs n g strings. Try exploring, it is kink and fun.

7. Lady be mentally and physically be prepared for minor spanking on bums and hair being held and pulled while in doggy position. Lady shud also be prepared for deep throat. Be prepared to hear words like 'slut', 'cum dump' etc etc. If the lady is uncomfortable with these the guys shud be told about ur comfort level.

8. Always keep adequate condoms and lubes handy. Lubes are must.

DON'Ts

1. DO NOT SHARE your phone number not even your whatsapp number during initial phase of contact establishment. I always used TG for contact. Even after the meets I did not share my numbers with those guys.

2. Never ever visit a black guy in his apartment. You may land up in trouble of various sorts. The same is for guys as well who want to lay a black girl.

3. Avoid calling him to your home or flat untill and unless it is inevitable and you know him very well.

4. Insist on using protection. These guys are very fond of giving creampie. If you want the same pls insist on a latest medical report as regards his health including reports on various transmittible diseases. Definitely a Covid test certificate as well.

5. Please avoid heavy boozing or else u will lose on the fun aspect. Emphasis should be more on sexual enjoyment rather than filling up the belly with whiskies and beer. I feel it is better to fill up the pussy with a fat cock rather than making up the belly fat with liquid diets. Lay stress only on BLACK COCK DIET.

6. Ladies Never ever let your husband leave you alone, be it at hotel or home. Husbands pls do not make such stupid mistakes.

7. Avoid over exuberance. Stick to a single guy for each session. Do not try and call two or more black guys for a session.

8. You may prefer to keep some memories for future but ensure the same memories are not in their hand.

However, this discussion will b incomplete without expressing my thoughts on Indian guys. I want to bring to fore the fact that Indian bulls specially the mature ones are the best when it comes to intensity and passion. They are equally good if not better than their black counter with their strokes. It is only the quest for XXL size, kink and taboo associated which drives a woman towards black. But here again I want to drive home the fact that sexual pleasure is not about size only, it is also about passion & intensity. I want tò draw an analogy from the animal world. Yu guys may not aware.... Do yu know Chimps are the best in giving pleasure to their females despite having a small cock and lasting almost below one minute. Why??... it is because of the intensity & passion with which he fucks the female.


Now let me come to our desi versions. (Please note I m not generalising every guy out there). It is jus some of my experiences. The moment I log onto any site I will find myself flooded with friend requests from profiles i.e. desi version of black bulls claiming to be not less than 8 inches and having huge experiences with females and cpls (experience level not less than 3 cpls nd 4 females mostly as stated). These guys shoots then send relentless messages one after another .... On most occassions the first message is 'are you interested'...
If the message is ignored his next message is ' yes or no'. In sheer exuberance at the prospect of bedding a female whom he thinks is always ready with her legs apread wide apart he forgets the basic courtesy of introducing himself and exchanging the basic pleasantaries. Some times to my horror if I check onto their great bull profiles, I could not decide whether to laugh or cry. From their profiles It is beyond doubt oxford dictionary might someday contemplate to publish a special edition. I always felt guys and also few cpls in such cases always thought Swinging or Swapping is akin to screwing in 'gaanne ka khet' . Alas they are not to be completely blamed .... Now here pls blame it on "Globalisation" ... this is the great effect of globalisation of human mind and psyche. He too has his rights to look for a hole of choice.


However, my biggest disappoinments are some educated pseudo bulls and studs who fail to differentiate between hotwifing, cuckolding and humiliation. For them hotwifing and cuckolding is all about humiliation. More often than not I get messages asking, " do you like gali" and When I ask them to elaborate their questions they say " Do you like gali like saali kutiya rand". For them my answer has always consistent, straight and clear " ok I wont mind that but I have my terms and conditions, I will lend an ear for these after your use them with ur si....r & m....her. For them I would say u dont deserve to get a fuck untill you educate yourself with the nuances of this lifestyle.


Finally, I feel Indian guys have to accept the fact that Indians or the Asians are genetically not made or I will say manufactured to have huge cock like the blacks. However, he can compensate the same with his innovative tricks and techniques. My take on this issue .... a six incher is good enough to give me a ride of ectasy n pleasure. And my personsal quest has not been for one too bigger or smaller than that.


My best experience with an Indian bull was in Morjim, Goa two years back. Oh my he was a complete package and can give any damn fucker of the universe a run for his money. You call for the size ... he had it 8.6 inches to be precise, a rare piece of Indian black metal and that is the biggest Indian cock i have across and may be the one in those million Indian cocks.i have nt been lucky again to see one such. You call for intensity ... he was with it ... be it licking, fondling, smooching and stroking. You call for passion ... it was out of box. I was ravaged throughtout that afternoon till wee hours of next morning. I still remember back in the hotel room in Panjim next whole day i was stuck to bed with body still aching from the previous night adventure ( or misadventure as I thought at that moment because of aches in my thighs and mouth). I know I won't find one such Indian again but does that mean I will stop my fav hobby " hotwifing". No I shall not. I shall thrive to live and enjoy my adventures with other Made in India ones and occassional imported ones from Africa, Europe or say any part of world.

I jus want to sum up with small advisory.


1. For Hotwives : Invest time to find and use good Made in India product. Broaden your scope and occassionally use imported ones as well.


2. For Guys: No more bits & pieces product. Improve your product quality & give us a complete package & let us use home made product. Otherwise the loss is yours.

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