Sexual Needs & Activity

I have noted behaviour of our friends and us (as a couple) and noted patterns and ask why? what makes people want sex more than others?


I have noted that sunbathing nude makes me horny and than years later I was reading that "Vitamin D" we get from the sun actually creates this sexual need. So if one has less and normal vitamin D the sexual need should be lower than normal?
However, there are also patterns between males and females and much more clearer between heterosexuals and gay people (although not all) One cannot but note that most sex sites and sex-chat sites or swinger sites are full of men....in which ever country. why is this? why is the such a huge sexual need imbalance in this human behaviour?
Most gay/lesbian people i know are more sexually active than heterosexuals, why?


In my life i have met so many sexually sad males who are married and financially committed because of children and wanting to have "on the side sex" that it makes me sad to realise why there are so much different sexual needs.....and why do some males cannot communicate to their partner about "extra sexual needs"?
Although the sexual act as such is a very "selfish need" some say it should b controlled and some say "why should it be controlled?" "people should be free to express their sexual fantasies. should they?
Musicians and artists are also known to have a high sexual need & activity.....why?
Is sex related to creativity in any way? all these questions worry me as life would be so much nicer if everyone was on the same sexual wavelength, no?
The age of sexual harmony...will it ever be?


Give me you comments...thoughts, please feel free.

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