It’s problematic in real life, but being the teacher’s pet is a common fantasy, even if you’ve been done with your college days for a while. Professors are typically people we respect—smart, distinguished, and accomplished. And don’t even get me started on those tweed blazers with the elbow patches. The idea of s•x with a professor, or anyone in a power position (like a boss), can feel not only thrilling, but like you’re getting away with something. “It can be incredibly liberating and lead to a powerful release to let go, be out of control, to shift power, to not decide everything,” says Burdett. “It can be exhilarating to fantasize about what you want, ask for it and find someone who is excited about performing it.” To safely and ethically explore this fantasy, find a partner who is down to role-play.
