Dominating SomeoneFantasies of being in control in the bedroom are also quite common—47% of people who identify as women admit to having had this fantasy. It can be incredibly hot to call the shots during sex, especially in a culture that systematically tries to strip minority groups of our power both in and out of the bedroom.To try this one, the same rules as above apply: discuss the scene with your partner, establish boundaries and a safe word, and keep intoxicants like alcohol at a minimum.
