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My First Encounter With A Dom...

1:30 pm Monday, 21st September, 2020

My history includes being married 25 years, then in a relationship 5 years, that ended. I joined online dating started texting with a man I found intriguing, we texted for 3 hours! The next day we were having a lovely lunch on the beach, somehow, he brings up Dominant and Submissive (D/s)! WHAT, OMG what did I get myself into! He let me know he was a Dom! We had already kissed, prior to this revelation, for some reason when he came in for another kiss I did keep kissing him. When the date ended I knew I would never see this man again. I told him he could get his new submissive meat elsewhere! In a few days I received a call from him and again he enveloped me with his wit and charm. We talked at length about D/s relationships and how this all works. He answered all my questions, a trust was developing, I did my research, we made a written contract for Safe, Sane, Consensual sex. The night had come! I was instructed to leave the door unlocked, wear black lingerie, no panties, heels, to look him in the eyes. I could address him as Sir and could not speak unless told to. I waited in the middle of my kitchen my legs were weak and I was shaking all over! I could have stopped at anytime and chose not to. He came through the door with a serious and stern look. He walked around me for inspection, he grabbed my breasts and nipples, then he felt my pussy which I couldn’t believe was wet. I was told to get on my knees and suck his cock. I gladly sucked and licked his cock and balls that was a familiar act for me. Then he had me stop he went behind me and put a blindfold on, stood me up and lead me to the bed. Once on the bed he licked my even wetter pussy, put his hard cock in, then brought his cock to my mouth for me to taste! Then the room was quiet, I heard a bag come up on the bed, a zipper open and then the sound of chains and Velcro. Fear gripped me again and I began shaking again and now whimpering, almost crying with fear! I had restraints put on my wrists, ankles, neck and a chain went across my bed that was attached to the bed and my restraints. It was awful, but wonderful at the same time! He was forceful with me but was also respectful, and kind, if that is even possible. I felt safe as I was blindfolded and bound. I also felt powerful that I had conquered my fear. What a night, I will never forget and want to experience again! From vanilla to D/s, if my friends could see me now what would they say.........guess what, I really don’t care! I feel more alive than I have ever felt in my life, I love this new, exciting feeling and don’t want it to end!



Comments
8:36 am Friday, 25th September, 2020

I’ve been in the lifestyle for 10 years and would love to play with you for a while

5:10 pm Saturday, 26th September, 2020

Bull shit

4:11 am Monday, 28th September, 2020

Very hott!

11:33 am Monday, 28th September, 2020

Wish I was there sounds exciting

6:44 pm Tuesday, 29th September, 2020

What a great story!  Glad it had a happy ending, though was a bit dangerous.

11:00 pm Tuesday, 29th September, 2020

Made me all SWOLLEN AND HARD 

10:56 pm Sunday, 4th October, 2020

I want you. Lol.  I have to get out more often. 

7:50 pm Monday, 12th October, 2020

You sound very interesting and I would love to explore further with you 

12:28 pm Wednesday, 14th October, 2020

Very Cool.

3:14 pm Monday, 19th October, 2020

excellent story. Thanks for sharing

10:12 am Saturday, 24th October, 2020

WOW, keep riding my dear, YOU are winning. Others are still dreaming.

2:23 pm Saturday, 24th October, 2020

Enjoyed you're story.

8:41 am Sunday, 25th October, 2020

Awesome and I'm impressed!

4:49 pm Wednesday, 28th October, 2020

I would love be your dom , to bad I am in az

2:51 pm Sunday, 1st November, 2020

glad to see you had a great first experience.

3:36 am Tuesday, 3rd November, 2020

💏

6:36 am Wednesday, 4th November, 2020

Thanks, for sharing. I'm so turned on 

12:25 am Saturday, 7th November, 2020

I will gladly control you and paddle your bare bottom!

12:25 am Saturday, 7th November, 2020

9:20 am Sunday, 8th November, 2020

Glad you had a great night do it again sometime with this guy don't feel shy

7:25 pm Tuesday, 10th November, 2020

There's a big difference between having sex and making LOVE!  Wake the hell up!

10:22 pm Thursday, 19th November, 2020

I love ur story. Wish I was in your shoes

12:29 pm Friday, 20th November, 2020

I hope to make your second adventure even more enjoyable

4:26 pm Friday, 20th November, 2020

I would love to spank your bare bottom.

2:55 am Sunday, 22nd November, 2020

Enjoyed your blog.  Dave

2:06 am Monday, 23rd November, 2020

That’s  the way every night should be Hot. 

3:24 am Wednesday, 25th November, 2020

 I hope to make your second adventure even more enjoyable, I love to please more than how you've ever been pleased in the past

10:32 pm Wednesday, 25th November, 2020

I am excited just reading your dom incident 

7:29 am Thursday, 26th November, 2020

For a gif spanking!

6:35 am Sunday, 29th November, 2020

Sounds like a great time would love to hear the details about what happened after the chains came out great story it really turned me on

3:28 pm Monday, 30th November, 2020

Sounds erotic..but weird...especially at your edge 

12:43 pm Tuesday, 1st December, 2020

Sounds like bucket list stuff I want to experience.

7:15 pm Tuesday, 1st December, 2020

🔫

7:17 pm Tuesday, 1st December, 2020

Oh my God, I' m glad you had good time at the end of it all...

7:39 am Friday, 4th December, 2020

This new Dom of yours at first time was fully aware of your first vanilla time. Good. however, more sessions will or have increasing needs and for increased pain,more,etc. Becomes an addiction for more of the exciting, as authentic sex really is. However, BDSM, depending on actions may have good or danger involved. Dom loved you.

9:55 am Tuesday, 8th December, 2020

Nice 

7:12 am Wednesday, 9th December, 2020

That's awesome 😊

8:18 pm Wednesday, 9th December, 2020

Dang good story , I got hard just reading,   L would love to do you the same  say 

5:27 am Thursday, 10th December, 2020

this was hot I got hard reading it and would love to have you as my sub

11:55 am Friday, 11th December, 2020

Rock hard. 

8:37 pm Sunday, 13th December, 2020

i can be dom. also. and live ear bye too.

9:14 pm Sunday, 13th December, 2020

I understand. I had a similar experience with a sub that opened me up to being a Dom. It's hard to put into words. Trust is paramount. A true Dom cares for and protects his sub allowing her to let go and experience complete freedom by giving hersilf completely. I could never go back to vanilla

9:09 am Tuesday, 15th December, 2020

Great hun it's always good to feel your alive and enjoying sex

4:26 pm Wednesday, 23rd December, 2020

I am interested in meeting you and become your dominant 

1:13 pm Sunday, 27th December, 2020

Very nice story. Not sure I could do this. Well maybe for you I could.

5:20 pm Sunday, 27th December, 2020

Thanks for sharing your experience.  

8:35 pm Sunday, 27th December, 2020

When a sub meets a real Dom things happen. To often their first experience is with a make believe Dom and they never forget. True relationships are always based on trust. A true Dom will hurt you but never harm you.

1:19 am Thursday, 31st December, 2020

I want to do that to a woman and make her tremble,but melt for me.

3:17 am Thursday, 31st December, 2020

Hola me gustaria saver de ti 

3:17 am Thursday, 31st December, 2020

Hola me gustaria saver de ti 

9:49 pm Sunday, 17th January, 2021

Teach me and show me wow sounds like fun 

12:02 pm Monday, 18th January, 2021

All that matters is u like it and it's enjoyable dam got hard reading it lol

6:46 am Tuesday, 19th January, 2021

very erotic and exciting. i would like to experience with a teacher. thank you

3:49 am Sunday, 24th January, 2021

Que hemocion Me gustaria pasar por todo eso que bonita experencia😈😈😈😈😈

2:50 am Monday, 25th January, 2021

He was an amateur compared to me

3:19 am Wednesday, 27th January, 2021

You tell it well!  Brave lady with a reward

4:38 pm Wednesday, 27th January, 2021

Like you stories wish it would of been us .

5:38 pm Wednesday, 27th January, 2021

Good for u, go for it u only live once, I'm getting a chubby just thinking about it..

!

5:38 pm Wednesday, 27th January, 2021

Good for u, go for it u only live once, I'm getting a chubby just thinking about it..

!

2:07 pm Friday, 29th January, 2021

Great description of the right way to approach a ds relationship opener

1:03 am Wednesday, 3rd February, 2021

Excellent woman sub

4:13 am Wednesday, 3rd February, 2021

I get it 

10:32 am Wednesday, 3rd February, 2021

Great story and now let’s Rewind and do it again 

10:36 pm Thursday, 4th February, 2021

it shouldn't end, it will only be more enjoyable and you will be wet all the time thinking of what cones next...who ....so since im not a paying member contact me as u can...and enjoy your new life

3:07 am Tuesday, 9th February, 2021

Hot

8:51 pm Thursday, 11th February, 2021

Did you take it up your ass?

4:56 am Friday, 12th February, 2021

Hot

7:31 am Tuesday, 16th February, 2021

1LJDs
That's so Sexy.
Sounds Hot AF.
Thanks. I'm all eyes and ears if want to share more.
😉

9:22 pm Tuesday, 16th February, 2021

GOOD

10:24 am Sunday, 21st February, 2021

Wow yes I am going to see if you want me to call u or just come to the river and put it on the table and see if I can hold it all in u cause u can take it all the way to the end of the day then take will a sure u of this

5:23 pm Sunday, 21st February, 2021

Let’s fuck 

5:02 am Wednesday, 3rd March, 2021

I would like to meet you

3:28 pm Monday, 29th March, 2021

Sexy story, love it.

7:59 am Thursday, 8th April, 2021

Yes, exciting,  that's the best part, and mutual respect.

3:31 am Saturday, 10th April, 2021

It is comical to see these responses? OBVIOUSLY the story is madeup! You all so desperate you believe this??

10:20 pm Saturday, 10th April, 2021

Awesome 👍 quite interesting 🤩

9:10 pm Friday, 16th April, 2021

Very hot...

3:56 am Wednesday, 21st April, 2021

I really enjoyed reading this. I hope i find a sub like you one day

10:34 pm Wednesday, 21st April, 2021

Awesome.  I'm glad you feel that way.  There's nothing like that sensation. 

1:38 am Saturday, 24th April, 2021

This was so hot It had me hard reading it. I would love you for my sub

2:48 pm Sunday, 25th April, 2021

Have you ever considered trying reverse role where you are the dominant 

1:21 am Saturday, 1st May, 2021

Not appealing to me !

11:05 pm Wednesday, 5th May, 2021

Very, very well written and detailed , i my self never been with a woman who has that tipe experience, but  bravo to  you ,what  a brave  woman!!!

3:18 am Thursday, 6th May, 2021

Hello ❤️❤️

10:09 pm Thursday, 6th May, 2021

Awesome!

8:15 pm Monday, 10th May, 2021

It's good to hear you enjoyed your first experience. Some assholes think it's about power. It is, but the sub has the true power. I'd love to talk with you and explain more if you'd like. My methods are different, but no less intense. Hope to hear from you soon. 

10:53 pm Thursday, 20th May, 2021

i love being a dom

10:50 pm Saturday, 22nd May, 2021

Sounds like you have found an ethical, experienced dom and I am happy for you. I love how you pushed your boundaries. When I tell people about consent, I use my BDSM experience for an example. The trust and losing of inhibition are the real satisfaction for me. I wish you positive and safe experiences as you explore your kinky side. 

7:49 am Sunday, 23rd May, 2021

That's Awesome!

5:26 pm Wednesday, 26th May, 2021

What a great story you were fortunate to have met a real Dom not a wannabe that flood our community. A Dom that understood his and where to take you so that you’d come back for more not ruined and hating. 

9:08 pm Wednesday, 26th May, 2021

😬

5:23 pm Thursday, 27th May, 2021

Awesome post loved it all.
😍

5:30 am Saturday, 29th May, 2021

Wanna fuck?

7:52 am Monday, 14th June, 2021

That’s so cool. Free and easy. Looking for more

12:26 am Saturday, 19th June, 2021

yes let us meet for dinner

2:36 pm Wednesday, 23rd June, 2021

Would love to meet up with you be  surprised how I can make you feel

2:42 pm Wednesday, 23rd June, 2021

😍💞💞💞😍

6:47 am Friday, 25th June, 2021

👅😁💯

12:46 pm Monday, 28th June, 2021

Ur beautiful 

10:26 pm Monday, 28th June, 2021

Have you tried anal?

11:51 am Monday, 12th July, 2021

MARVELOUS

2:52 pm Wednesday, 14th July, 2021

That's amazing can we do it together?

6:27 pm Wednesday, 14th July, 2021

What a lucky Dom. You are a beautiful woman. I love your smile. 

6:28 pm Thursday, 15th July, 2021

My problem is love fucking and clit sucking 

5:17 am Friday, 16th July, 2021

Amazing 

9:13 pm Friday, 16th July, 2021

I am daddy dom 

3:46 am Sunday, 18th July, 2021

Great story from a beautiful woman

5:13 pm Monday, 19th July, 2021

Let grab your tits an more

9:43 am Thursday, 29th July, 2021

You are AWESOME!!!

9:34 am Friday, 30th July, 2021

Yu stumbled into something that is exactly what you want and need

1:08 pm Saturday, 31st July, 2021

How about a young hard cock dominate you all the time

1:51 am Monday, 2nd August, 2021

 I would love to dominate you

10:22 am Wednesday, 4th August, 2021

Interesting tale.  What are you up to nowdays?

8:10 pm Thursday, 19th August, 2021

Love ❤️ it

8:36 pm Thursday, 19th August, 2021

Love to give you more…

7:51 pm Saturday, 21st August, 2021

I can give divine oral...

6:18 pm Thursday, 2nd September, 2021

Got me your mine😘😫

6:18 pm Thursday, 2nd September, 2021

👅👅👅👅👅👅👯

12:50 am Friday, 3rd September, 2021

True or false, it’s a great story. Thanks for sharing.

12:55 pm Friday, 3rd September, 2021

🤞😰😂😊👅

2:33 pm Friday, 10th September, 2021

did he play with you anally also

6:18 pm Saturday, 11th September, 2021

Excellent post.  More, please.

4:21 am Wednesday, 15th September, 2021

great write up

2:04 am Friday, 17th September, 2021

You are beautiful 

7:38 pm Friday, 17th September, 2021

Show me your butt

4:39 am Saturday, 18th September, 2021

What a wonderful story young lady that was awesome, thank you for sharing.

11:50 pm Saturday, 18th September, 2021

Can I b your little wire transfer to your panties and bra on me and I'll be your friend and stockings on me and I will be your bich in bed

3:27 am Monday, 20th September, 2021

Love to take you to dinner and then go to your place for adventures 

11:13 am Thursday, 14th October, 2021

Omg, this story was amazing. But on the other hand I wish I was there to make it better 😉

4:47 pm Thursday, 28th October, 2021

Would love to experience this

7:32 am Friday, 29th October, 2021

It's good to see that you're living life and enjoying the pleasure that comes with it. Thanks 

1:19 am Sunday, 19th December, 2021

I love your story wish I was there to take is place

3:28 pm Sunday, 19th December, 2021

Excellent story.  Every Dom's dream.

3:10 pm Monday, 21st February, 2022

I will be your new master

2:35 pm Wednesday, 30th March, 2022

What a great experience!  Nicely told.  Hope you always feel so alive.

9:17 pm Thursday, 23rd June, 2022

Mmm I will be a good help 

7:22 pm Monday, 27th June, 2022

Babe I'd love to take you back to those same feelings....and more! I'm not into anything S&M..just controlled DomSub sex. I'm very much into older women..they are such more sexual and love going the extra mile in how they enjoy it. Hit me up...😘💋👅👅

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I am new to Ds, find it very exciting! Like the chains and light bondage. Looking for thoughtful Dom.


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