Have you ever seen a handsome man at a mall? If you did, did you approach him and said that you look great?
Or,
Let's ask the handsome folks out there. Have you seen a beautiful lady passing by? I am sure you would.
But, did you dare to go, and say that she looks great?
In either of the cases, the answer is always a NO.
Yeah, even I don't have the guts to say that. It's because of the perception that people have on us. Some think of us being the MR. Innocent, MRS or MS Traditional etc.
But the question that still comes to my mind is,
If God has given a lady with curves and gifted her with beauty (subjective- what I consider as beautiful and great might not be the same in your views and that's perfectly ok).
Can't we just walk freely and say that, the lady looks damn beautiful. Speaking it out and sharing our opinion should not be considered as an open invitation for jumping on the bed.
If you are a beautiful lady, my request would be to consider the compliment and don't take it otherwise. If the context means that you are looking fab, it just means that. The hidden agenda might exist, but unless that is put forward, please don't have a negative bias towards males.
If you are a male, same applies. But yeah, instead of dumping your feelings, go out and speak normal with the girl. Obviously, I won't walk upto her and say that I would like to have sex with you. That would be crossing my limits since I have no idea of the interests.
But, a common statement which compliments her beauty should be fine. Infact, I feel that we as guys should compliment women when they really could make us feel comfortable.
And sex alone is not the paramount for everything. A good conversation, a good time spent with a good company might give the same satisfaction or better than what a robotic sex session might not.
And,
Coming to the other side.
Having sex is perfectly normal. Either married or not married, it's ok as long as the individuals in the act are ok with it. I mean, if they don't have a problem with what they do in a private space, then the matter should be of least importance to anyone.
Again, when it comes to perspectives, each to his own.
But, what if you are married to a guy who does not show any interest in sex? Will you leave as a virgin?
And same goes to guys as well. What if the lady is not interested in sex at all? A man's urge is not that easy to be controlled.
So, isn't it cheating?
I won't bother you with more words, and statements.
To conclude, all I want to say is, we are humans.
So having emotions and feelings is perfectly normal because of our hormones. If it's about saying or complimenting a guy or a girl, do it.
If it's about going all in and having sex, as long as you are comfortable, have it. No second thoughts.
It's one life. Live it to the core and do what makes you feel happy.
People around will always have a problem. There will always be a noise. So, if that noise makes an impact on thought process, life is fucked up with procrastination.
On the other side, doing what we love just makes us find peace, happiness and reflect that on to someone else.
Sex and conversations are completely normal .
What do you feel? In case if I crossed any limits, I am sorry. But, with the audience who is very much inclined towards a modern way of living,
I am sure, I just spoke my heart out and feelings, with an expectation that I won't be taken otherwise and judged for words written.
Wishing you all a good time.
Cheers,
