Thought & Relationship :- Pre Swinging and post swinging

I was very much eager to know about how the relationship with the sexual partner shapes after such swap experience !!

I went through many articles but wasn't sure what actually happens.I read that in many cases the relationship grows for the better and in many other cases it goes south.
So, with lots of uncertainty, We jumped into the well of exploring new dimensions of pleasure as a couple.
My wife and I had been fantasizing about threesomes, group sex, gang bangs etc since a long time now. But before doing the actual deed ,I wanted to research about how things worksworks, what rules are to be followed and how boundaries are to be set. I am grateful that she is agree for all what ever I said .. She is very good at research and she helped me in decision taking after her fun4two knowledge. I didn't tell my opinions on her .She just showed me the way , agreed and asked me to lead.
Only when we felt we were ready, we decided to meet people. We met a few couples before our first experience. As we exchanged views and ideas we got a better understanding of this wonderful lifestyle. I am not sure we understand it yet, totally.
But our first time swapping went surprisingly well. We met a couple at Banglore with whom we felt really comfortable and we made plans of getting together. We had an extremely wonderful evening with them. I would love to say it was great experience , all four naked bodies in one bed . Sharing partner happily and getting more exited to see partner enjoying with other man or woman was extremely cock Harding or pussy wetting . Seeing wify's pussy sucked by other man was really exiting for me as I was never able to give such pleasure of pussy sucking to her due to my fear of turning off during pussy sucking .
I was seeing her with great happiness and moaning during pussy sucking sessions. I had a privilege to fuck other man’s wife and her in same bed . When I fucked other lady she was little surprise first time but absorbs that one, as I was enjoying. But at second time at Delhi , with other couple , she encourages me to grab the boobs of other lady ,and she enjoyed it with excitement without single trace of jealous.
Anyway, I was mainly trying to say about the relationship after trying this lifestyle. As we already in a very healthy relationship n this affected us in a very positive way. We discussed about the whole experience very openly. I told her,how much I enjoyed showing and sharing your assets to with another man and how I liked to make the other woman comfortable every moment (Sincerely hoped to not make her feel left out or jealous). I thanked her for being such a gentle lady .She told n confess to me how much she enjoyed group sex which is my favourite one. To be frank, I was very scared that she would get possessive seeing me with another woman and completely ruin the experience. But I surprised myself that day she didn't get jealous. I knew she wanted me to enjoy and I did. Even when he was licking her and I was being sucked by someone else, every time our eyes met we felt our relationship was blossoming. That day I discovered a new she ..New sexy SHE !
I didn't know I could say or do such things which I did that day. I didn't know I could be so comfortable touching another woman . I know, I enjoyed lot,seeing her with other man enjoying greatly with wide sexy thighs . I rediscovered myself. We had a very thorough discussion about it later and our bond got stronger. What about the sex? Oh ya, it definitely got better. I was having fear that after enjoing foursome we might not enjoy our twosomes. I was having fearthat we may get greedy and may not appreciate what we had just between us. But my fears, thankfully, didn't come true. Instead we are enjoying sex more ,even if it’s only just us.She was always awesome in bed and she still is and additionally we have more things to talk about while fucking. Like, I would describe how much I was exited when she sucked another man’s dick and holding two dicks in two hands or how I found boobs or pussy of other woman , we more dirty n sexy things to talk which we enjoys to listen and share and it instantly turns us on.Now she has more fantasies to share and plans on experiencing those. I am more confident about her and our relationship am sure she feels the same.After our first swapping we had plans to meet more couples and more places and have some intimate time together. we are now more horny.After that we have been meeting more people and with each meeting we get to learn something new. I agree, our views do not match with every couple or person we meet. But it doesn't have to. A normal friendship can be maintained or ways can apart just after a coffee meet, with no hard fellings .We don't have to sleep with everyone we meet and we don't have to hate or judge everyone , we don't sleep with. Till now my understanding is, it's a very flexible lifestyle. Rules and boundaries can be set and discussed openly. We get to add our ideas and imaginations; also we get to disagree when required. I feel the most important thing in this lifestyle is to have a very good understanding of your partner, and to achieve that, good communication is important. Both the partners should respect each other's wishes and views. This lifestyle is meant to be fun and give physical pleasure and not become a baggage too heavy to carry. I would like to see more naked men and women in my lifetime; it would be infinite times better if she is with me and enjoying the same. The mantra is "No strings attached!" 😉

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