Something I've noticed that is extremely prevalent, that’s the use of avatars as profile pics, bugger all detail about the advertisers – yes, that’s what we all are, advertisers – and next to nothing about what the author(s) are actually seeking. Things like:
I will tell you later or Prefer not to say. Fine, you might very well "Prefer not to say" but on every level of the basic detail????
….and“fun fit easy going looking for similar people”
Similar to what? Fun? Fit? Easy-Going? All three? We’re on a swingers website. If you’re even remotely serious about bringing another human being into a relationship, be that male or female, the person reading your ad wants to know what you’re selling and seeking, what ‘kinks’ you’re like to explore, what your limits might be. You’re selling yourself, as vulgar as that might seem, but that’s what you’re doing. What we’re all doing.
Avatars do nothing for the imagination. If you feel you must use an avatar, put a pic or two into your profile. Doesn’t have to be a face, a cock or breast will do but at least it looks like you’re making an effort. That you’re keen on what you say you’d like to achieve. You might just find your strike rate will improve, and you MIGHT find what you’re seeking.Just my observations. By the by, I’m still seeking.
