Firstly something about me: I'm in my 60s. reasonably good looking but have a balance impairment and ED following a couple of strokes - the second around 3 years ago now. Definitely huave an OK brain function so I guess I am lucky in that respect. I am married but sex and any kind of sexual activity with my wife has been non-existent for some years. I have had affairs when my E wasn't so D, but still get turned on by spanking - fantasy and reality. I have a flat in London and a house in the country where my wife spends her time. She may well suspect that I occasionally meet with women in London, but we have a comfortable relationship and she doesn't pry, so i get to have me cake and eat it.
I used to travel a lot and used my spanking fetish (nearly always giving) to make assignations with like minded women which was a great way of relieving travel boredom
I have had several cleaning ladies who have come early mornings to wake me up. My current one spanks me if she thinks I need it, washes me down in the shower and then gives me a usually very erotic massage, but if my hands stray she punches me in the balls which is an effective deterrent, although I do usually let my hands stray a little until she thus dissuades me.I have had a couple of cleaning ladies who have woken me up by stripping naked and getting into bed with me and indulging in mutual massage and there has been some spanking exchange wuth them on occasion.But what I think I need is a mature lady who likes to be spanked to come and visit me in the evenings and indulge in a lot of mutual touching of sensitive parts as well as the spanking. If she's a switch I can probably hanndle that as well. I'm good with my fingers and some ladies I've been with have orgasmed several times - unfortunately I only manage once!
So I fantasise about giving willing ladies spankings - moistly erotic ones with lots of touching of certain unspanked areas. I've also given light pussy spankings - usually ending withn a kiss better! spanking as foreplay is a great turn-on for both spanker and spankee. I just need to find the right spanking partner to satisfy my desires.
