I don't remember the first time I used the word "fuck." I just know it's been a part of my vocabulary for quite a while.
And what is it about the word that elicits emotion both good and bad within different types of people. Is it because naughty is liberating that a word such as that encompasses all of what we feel in one shot?
During last years IPL, as the games wound down and the Mumbai Indias began their drive to what was thought to be the winning Drive, I happened to be with a couple of coworkers, who for the most part have never seen me so worked up let alone invested in two teams (CSK) I could care less about.
While most of the crew had a few beers in system by the time I arrived, I hadn't downed a one. Yet, here I was speaking (yelling, more like it) as though it was 2-4-1 on Nickel Beer Night after college finals.
Of course, I didn't realize it till after several F-bombs slipped from my lips, and I apologized for my excited demeanor.
"Don't f'n mention it," beers clanking in the air with such drunken stupor, "It isn't like I haven't f'n said it before, right dude?
"And that's what's so cool about a word that ironically in a social setting is quietly accepted but never spoken in fear of people being conservative in general. Yet behind closed doors, it's basically a f'n free for all.
Especially when it comes sex; whether spoke in the context of the verb, noun, or adjective being used in extraordinary circumstances or in a writing pretense, there is something said about a word such as "fuck" to stir the loins of people, when it used in the right context.
But, who really gives a fuck, about the word "fuck"?
Well it depends. Because an impressionable word such as that when used loosely simply becomes just a word without any drawing power. Like if, say, it in a complete sentence:
Fuck that fuckin' fuck.Sexy right?However, when, for example it is used in directly and to the point, the simplicity of that notion will for the most part stir chemicals in our brains to turn even the average man and woman into at least thinking some part of their sex or sex itself has come into play.
Like this morning when I received a greeting of two words from a favorite of mine that I very much felt south of my belt:"Fuck me."If that isn't a "Mmm" moment, I don't know what is.It's sensual yet precise, thrilling and keen. wanton and wanting. And used resourcefully, such in this case, it is a perfect invitation of self explanation - something that eventually can rock one's mental world into a whole lot of "fucking" trouble! Whoops! See what I mean.
The next time you're in the mood to get down and dirty, and need to press the mental foreplay, remember this: a word is just a word, less its a fucking word - then you're game to use it to your advantage.
So, how do you use the word, "Fuck"?
