When your wife or girlfriend tells you that you are a great lover does she really mean ? I mean women don't always choose life partners by how good they are in the sack, do they? are a lot of other criteria that we are judged on and I think sex just falls into the mix somewhere. Its kind of like when our mother tells us how smart we are or how handsome we are. Her perspective of those qualities are influenced by the motherhood relationship.I think the way really tell is by her reaction in the moment. If she's begging you stop and she's not out of breath and flushed, she's probably just begging you to stop because its not really good. Laughing can be a sign of someone having a good time. Pointing and laughing is a sign of something completely different.If she's telling her friends how good you are, you're probably pretty good. If she isn't telling her friends anything about it... well... maybe not as good.
