COMING BACK HERE IS ENLIGHTENING

We all experience setbacks and we all try to bounce back. We all try to be optimistic and hopeful; yet it seems like we going back to where we used to be. Coming back here after more than 18 months is a clear manifestation that we have a habit of going back where we feel comfortable. Coming across this site made me new friends and found that person. Haha! Funny, eh? Of all places, right? But, yeah.


One of the perks of finding "each other" on the site is the maturity to which you deal with whatever situation you were in before you met and why you were both on the site in the first place. The sad reality is: this site is an illusion which is entirely separate from the real world outside. If and when we try to take some of this illusion to the real world, chances are it will not work. Why?


Well, here on this site, we get to live by our own rules, the ones we have as self-preservation instincts as human beings. Outside, we live by the society's standards. It is funny that here in our world of illusions we are as real as we are and out there we are these characters the world wants us to be.


Coming back here is not all about sex and fantasies -- it is about finding a place to express me as myself; being free to say as I please and do as I please and not be judged by any of it. Here, tolerance is not a bad thing, it is the acknowledgment that we all are unique and we need to be able to breathe as who we really are.


I must say, I miss being here because here is where I think I will keep coming back to meet people and see them for who they really are -- underneath all the sex and kinks, the real people behind all of it. Kudos to all of you! Cheers to us!

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