About me in more detail

I get paid well to geek & I geek very well. I've recently begun coming out to those I trust but it's still a process for me. I was also recently rejected for being what I am so I am a little gun shy right now, but I really want someone who can see ME & care about me.


Age 46
Race Human
Hair Red looks blonde due to greying
Eyes Blue
Height 6 Ft
Weight 250
Relationship Single Parent
Gender Trans MtoF - Pre op
Smoker Yes
Drinker Rare
Drug use clean for years
Career IT Pro
Education Associates + partial on Bachelors and multiple IT certs
Orientation Somewhat flexible - prefer women
BDSM Switch, Dominant
Religion mix of Wicca, Christian, old Norse, with a dash of Shamanism
Politics Independant, generally right of center but for the record can't stand President Trump personally.


Quirks Sometimes, speak like Yoda, I might. Love almost everything Gothic. Annoyingly analytical at times, occupational hazard.


Fetishes Bondage, spanking, hypnosis, flogging, TPE, latex, leather, orgasm control/denial, etc


turn ons: HONESTY, intelligence, good listening, adventurous, open minded, kinky, loving, trusting, supportive, polyamory (pref but not required), conversation, cuddling, dirty talking, hypnotism, bondage, humor


turn OFFS: Racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, lying, cheating, being judgemental, immaturity, drama, political or religious extremism


Hobbies: Video games, reading, computers, sword collecting, target shooting, movies, hypnosis, writing erotic stories, history


Looking for: A Jedi in the streets, Sith in the sheets who can give their heart and soul and who want's mine in return. Come to the Dark Side, I make killer pancakes. I am flexible but I strongly prefer women, so guys, unless you are Chris Hemsworth, Liam Neeson, Hugh Jackman, Christian Bale, or can make me purr like a kitten the most you are likely to get is snuggling, sorry. Attracted to female or trans ages 25-50.

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