There is plenty of good and bad when it comes to the World Wide Web and social media, but if there is one good, it's that you can come clean about an interest, a fantasy that's been on your mind for years, even decades, and find people who are understanding about it.
I'm a fairly easygoing man in my mid-40s. I'm a widower with a good job, supportive family and friends, and who is back on his feet after several years following the passing of my wife from breast cancer. But I also have a kink that's been in the back of my head for years -- one I've always wanted to try but was afraid to speak with anyone about it for the longest time. During a rough spot in our marriage, my wife and I even discussed trying kinky roleplay and fantasies to spice things up before she fell ill. Now, I feel ready and hope to share my ideas with someone -- perhaps there is someone out there who'd like to give this a shot with me, who knows?
As a young adult, I was always fascinated with the damsels in distress fantasy, the chloro rag, tying up the pretty woman, etc. As I became of age, I was always imagining doing an actual roleplay of this fantasy. Well-dressed woman tied to the bed by the ankles and wrists, blindfold, possible tape over the mouth.
Everything would be negotiated ahead of time, and I would be a gentle dominant -- nothing hurty -- just nice, "friendly domination" -- light massage, tickling, leg, foot and shoe worship, etc.
A few women found this interesting, but either lived too far away or found it too out there to try it in person. I'd love to find someone to try this roleplay with one day though. It could happen.
