The first woman I experienced was about 14 years ago. We met as couples swinging and I had my first bi experience. Still friends after she divorced her husband and later remarried a really terrific guy. (He is aware that her and I had a one on one experience, not sure if she mentioned the 4 some) The 4 of us are friends, even though she knows I still would love to have a sexual relationship with her and always flirt with her and her new husband, lol. Actually told her a few months ago that I was really craving some girl/girl time! Can't be anymore upfront about it. Even told her another 4some would work for us. Who knows, maybe someday.....