New to swingers scene

Hi Guys,
It's Eddy here. Me and my wife, Nad has been married for 8 years. Our sex life for the first few years were great. It has become less than interesting for the past 3 years. Mostly due to my performance on bed.

Most of the time when we had sex, my dick couldn't get full erection. It somehow shrinking in size during the sex and she couldn't feel the pleasure anymore. Just recently I bought her a rabbit vibrator so that she can satisfy herself after I came.

So I did ask her quite few times, if she wanted to have sex with other guys or threesome/foursome, especially during our intimate session. And i have received various answers. Sometimes she said no, sometimes she said yes to have sex with my best friend or an actor like Zul Arifin. She said the guy must be good looking.

She did ask how are we going to find the guy/partners. I told her that we can find in dating sites or any social media platform. But still no concrete answer from her and she seems worried about the partner especially if they are clean and safe and so on. So I can't tell if she is being serious or joking since she gave me multiple reactions.

Nad was quite wild before we got married. She used to have few scandals while in a relationship with her boyfried. The funny thing is she never had sex with the boyfriend because he was too afraid. She had sex with multiple guys, be it single, engaged or married. She told me everything because we wanted to be clear about our past history. So that we can accept each other no matter what.

Please advise how can I get her to be wild again? How do I convince her that it was okay to try swinging life style? I need to spice up our sex life again.

Thanks!

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