Well here goes nothing!

cheers jerry, thanks for the advvice & encouragement xx

I find the first timers who are with a female partner, are the worst offenders in turning up then saying that they can't do it, feeling guilty and leaving. And you've spent a couple of hours getting ready !!!!img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"

now that would be frustating x

i was a first timer with a female partner and i was stood up so it does work go both ways,so to speak

Hey check me out I'm close bb