Loving BBW’s – Facts Not Fiction

The term BBW means many things to many people. For some it conjures up images of men who have a fetish for large women and are into feeding and other kinks. For others it’s a term of empowerment, an ideology of acceptance and rejecting mainstream media’s view of beauty and health. For others it is simply their lives, they are large women who navigate daily life and are not comfortable with all that being overweight entails.Join us as we attempt to shine a light on the reality of being a Big Beautiful Woman.• BBW is a Porn TermNot that it would be a bad thing if it was, after all, any porn site you visit will have a category for BBW’s so more power to them. However, the term BBW was coined in 1979 by Carole Shaw the founder of BBW Magazine, a publication that was billed as a “fashion and lifestyle magazine for plus-size women”.Since then the use of Big Beautiful Woman and BBW has been adopted as the term ofendearment and upliftment by the fat acceptance movement.• Having a Fat Fetish Is Not a Bad ThingSo what if you have a fat fetish? Like having a foot fetish or any particular turn-on having a fat fetish is not inherently a bad thing. The question is, does your fetish run the risk of harming someone? If the answer is no, then, the “no harm, no foul” adage is an applicable one. If you and your partner are on the same the page when it comes to what turns you on then live your lives. It is important to share your arousal patterns, set parameters for what is mutually exciting and then enjoy the hell out of each other.• Sex Is Fun for Big Girls, but Not Always Easy Unlike your college days where you and tipsy hook up for the evening shagged each other brains out in the nearest restroom, car backseat or couch hooking up with a BBW requires a bit more planning and forethought.Got your eye on a buxom lover? Then make sure you have a bed available, look up some tried and tested positions like doggy style, cowgirl and others and don’t be afraid to direct the action as it is happening to ensure you’re both satisfied.Ladies if your partner is a little timid feel free to direct them, who doesn’t love a firm hand to guide you when you’re feeling a little out of your depth?• Sex Can Be Hot and MessySurely sex is always a hot mess you might be thinking. And while that is true now add in the realities of a partner who is carrying additional weight. She will sweat a lot, so be sure to have a towel handy for her, make sure there is water nearby and ask her what she needs to be comfortable – this could range from a fan to keep cool to some snacks.More than anyone a larger person needs to be assured, through action, that you are okay with and enjoying their body. Be sure to kiss, caress and draw them close.• Join an Online CommunityAs a BBW there has never been a better time to be active online than the present. There are many fantastic online communities spearheaded by lovely large models and spokeswomen who are available to uplift, encourage and educate you on everything from diet to fitness to sex.These no-holds barred communities can lead to self-improvement, both mentally andphysically, an understanding of your self-worth, create long-term friendships and perhaps even lead to you meeting your significant other(s).• Let Your Voice Be HeardWe would love the buxom vixens in our community to let us know what you like and where people often get things wrong. We’d love to hear your tales of crazy dates, earth-shattering orgasms and WTF moments in the comments below. #bigbeautiful #hello

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