Dominating a submissive partner excites me sexually but I understand the allure of submission. If I were to express a desire for my partner to dominate me, it would be like this:
We have become solid friends. You are intelligent, can separate fantasy from reality and will always keep us both safe. I trust you to lead. Nobody is perfect, so even as you make mistakes, I will accept your leadership. That said...
Dispel any doubt of your superiority and authority to control me. I have chosen you as dominant and desire to become your submissive partner. Know that you can, and should, break my ego. My ego is not me. It will fight because it is not submissive. My ego is the result of years of independence. I am conditioned to observe social norms to avoid embarrassment. I want to be freed of bondage by becoming your submissive. I will not challenge your authority, but my ego, habits, and 'self' will resist the difficult psychological changes. Please have the confidence to push and teach me. I trust you to keep me safe. I acknowledge your right to discipline, restrict, and use me as you see fit to accomplish our mutual goal of forming a stable and permanent D/s partnership. Make me serve you.
Feel the power so I can feel your dominance.
