We have fantasied for our whole four years of marriage and I was starting to think we would never actually act on them! We love each other completely and utterly, and with the risk of making you feel sick I really never thought being married would be so easy. Marrying my husband was the best thing I ever did, we tell each other absolutely everything and are completely honest and open. When we are out on town we always point out attractive people to each other, mainly both of us checking out girls. We don’t really do anything separately and have only spent a couple of nights apart since we have been married and I still look forward to him coming through the door each day. We make each other laugh and feel safe and happy. Our sex life is great and everything I think we want it to be, but have always fantasied about doing all the things on our list. We both had a sheltered childhood and feel we have missed out on certain things which makes us both very curious.
My husband particularly always flirts with others and I encourage it, it’s a compliment to each others tastes if other people chat us up. When we go out we set each other a competition to see who can pull the most! There doesn’t seem to be any jealousy.
We had talked about his for ages. I had been playing online scrabble with a loose friend of friend for a year and half, flirting a bit as you do. The flirting got more and more, both of us. Then he said he wanted to meet me and which point I said “Look, no, I’m married”. Then a few days later I changed my mind and said I’d ask the hubby! I asked hubby if I could play around with this guy and he said yes. That was it, very easy discussion! Originally it was going to be anything goes except penetration but as the weeks went I thought I wanted actually sex. Hubby said it was fine as he got the same rules! Which is fair enough?
This seemed to be the turning point in our sexual journey. We had talked about this for four years, but since me forming an attachment to the guy I was texting and actually wanting to do something about it we decided it was time to open up our relationship. The guy chickened out and I was upset, so we came on this site to find me a distraction and that is why we are here. Just wish we had done it sooner!
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2:47 pm Friday, 10th October, 2014
great read and would be even better to meet you guys xxx |
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9:38 pm Wednesday, 27th May, 2015
Evening.. Fantastic profile just great to read. We would like to meet you and we are not so far away from Falmouth. Will await your reply take care bye Nick & Brenda
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