Being Transgender in the world.

Hello and welcome to this blog. I wish to talk about my experience as a transwoman.
But first a bit about myself.
I have always felt like I was the odd one out, As I grow up, I had to conform to what everyone seen me as, But we all know that its not what is on the outside, but back in the 80s Transgender was still New-ish and not many doctors knew much if someone came along and said "I don't think I am meant to be Male/Female" For me I had always knew that I was Female and at the age of 16 I did goto my doctor and tell him how I felt. But like I said it was back in a time that it was classed as a mental illness. Some people still see transgender as a mental illness, but to me its more then just in the mind. I am not really a religious person but I do believe in the soul. So what I am saying here is Transgender is not just the mind but its everything Mind, body and your soul. 
Back where I grow up it was not safe for anyone to even say Gay let alone that you think that you where in the wrong body. Back then no one knew anything about it and shunned anyone that said anything about it. It has gotten better in the years that have gone by. But due to the lack of knowledge back then, alot of people who felt isolated would either take two ways, one way is sad and the other was just to hide, to hide who you really are just eats at the core of your being , Transgender have been given so many other pet names. Transgender is not a lifestyle, its a way of living, a living of who we where meant to really be. A lot of people think that Transgenders either M2F or F2M are gay, That is not always the case. I was born male. But Identify as Female. But just because I was born male and Identify as female does not mean I like males. I infact like females myself. So in a way yes I am Gay, but not for the reasons most Normal people think. Some times normal people don't understand. They always say. "Well if you like females and you have a male body why do you want to change?" and some are always asking as they thinking along the same lines as I said earlier about being a "Gay Man" I would respond with "Well think about this, If I liked Dick so much, Why would I be planing on having mine removed" That stops them asking silly questions. 

Now this is where I will finshes this Blog for the moment, Please watch out for part 2 coming soon.

Just rememeber, You don't have to conform to anyone's standers just be who you where always meant to be.

For now, Live your life free.
Hugs and kisses to everyone out in this big blue Marble of love.

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