I never thought of myself as being on the kinky. But as I started my journey to sexual exploration and discovery, I realized that not only did I have a kinky side, but it overshadows my vanilla sexual appetite. These feelings were the main reason I now identify as bisexual and what pushes me to explore my sexuality even more. But BDSM? Is it for me?
My interest in the lifestyle, was my fascination with the idea of a woman fucking me in the ass with a strap-on. So I starting watching videos and it really turned me on to see a woman mount a man. Among those videos, were also of men, transsexuals and Mistresses fucking other men. Eventually it turned me to idea of having a real cock inside me, but also to the world of BDSM.
My knowledge of the lifestyle is extremely limited. After doing some research I can't say that I completely understand what it is and how it works. What I have found; is that there are many variations of the lifestyle, which is based on the preferences of each individual, couple or group.
I’m naturally a submissive guy, so I wouldn’t have a problem with someone else taking the reins and controlling every aspect of what happens and how it happens. Since my experience is non-existent, my fantasies currently included; role play, anal (giving/receiving) and perhaps body worship. I’ve very open minded, so with the right person I believe that I would be willing to try most, if not all. But I do have hard limits as it comes to pain, humiliation or anything dealing with bodily waste.
I almost see it as fate that I've come across this dating site; as my initial intention was to meet other bisexuals. Instead, after reading comments from other members, this site actually caters to the BDSM community. My hope is to meet a woman locally, who is interested and patient, to take on a newbie, and open this new world up to me. Or maybe someone at my level of experience and we can explore the lifestyle together.
So, do you want me to be your sex slave?
