always spend the time upfront discussing rules and roles with a new partner!!! They may tell you they are submissive and swear to it....but when things start happening you find a tenseness and shying away...either they didn't know what it meant or just didn't want to be found out as someone who didn't know. Cuckolds and submissives need to make sure they understand what is going to go on, and be sure they got the safewords down. A few minutes up front is not much to do to make sure everyone has a great time and not get emotionally hurt.
