Our Experience on the site

Hi lovely people; we just wanted to share our own experience on this site during our first 2 months since just like us, we thought it would be helpful for another newbie couple who joins this site. For some reason this is the third time we have to post this blog since this post seems getting deleted.

First of all, as our profile says, we’re a loving, married couple looking for ways to spice up our marriage and explore sexual boundaries bringing the kink back to our lives. We’re completely new to swinging (sexual experience with another couple), hence want to take things slow & easy. We want to start having a same room same partner (SRSP) experience with girls to play with each other & depending on the mood & comfortability perhaps soft swap. We are definitely not into full swap right now, as a loving husband I do not want my wife to do anything she does not like or would make her uncomfortable, hence giving her, her own time & willingness to try out new things.

Ok so having said that, coming back to the topic of sharing our experience on the site, we have browsed the site for some time (free version) with a different, basic profile created with not much information about us nor with any pictures, just to get the experience & see the calibre of people in it. After about a month or so of browsing, we decided to create a proper profile, purchasing subscription & included a well drafted description about us with a few non-nude pictures of us; this happened pre Covid-19 lock-down.

No sooner we officially entered ‘The World of Swingers’, our inbox started to get flooded with messages, roughly around 10-15 a day. First thing we did was, though we didn’t have experience on the site, but with common sense is to filter out the messages based on few criteria as below:

1. Since we’re not into single guys, deleted all messages sent by single guys. We do not understand why some people can’t read & understand when it clearly says not interested in single guys, for single guys not to send messages & bother us. ☹️
2. Deleted all messages sent by profiles that had no pictures, at least a simple non nude couple photo.
3. Deleted all messages sent by profiles that had no proper description or just a 1 liner; this shows how much of effort & thought had gone into creating a profile with genuineness.
4. Deleted all messages that were auto generated since we prefer to respond to personal messages only, since if you really want to get to know someone, you will put some effort describing yourself.

After applying the above filtration, there were only few messages left for us to respond to, yet we were happy since we were not looking for quantity but quality. Further we reached out to several couples based on the above filtration whom, from the profiles we figured out are genuine, respectable & classy couples. Further we looked into below criteria.

• Description (had put an effort to write a clear description about self & expectations)
• Photos (not necessarily nude, but quality photos of the couple)
• Reviews (from other similar couples)
• Experience (based on reviews & photos)

One thing we noticed was, some profiles which had no pictures or a proper description but 1-2 reviews highly recommending them as genuine couples were also given by similar profiles (which had no pictures or a proper description) & even some non-existent profiles. Later few couples we are now in touch with confirmed that these are in fact fake profiles created by them to review themselves. What a cheap trick!

Also, when you make the first contact & continue your chats, either on the site or off site, you might want to re-evaluate your stance about a couple from the details you share whether they are a suitable fit for you depending on their expectations, background, how they correspond etc.,

However I’m happy to say that we have been able to connect with several genuine couples with experience levels of 1 – 10 & a handful of them in close touch, exchanging normal photos, discussing various topics from Covid-19 to swinging to politics to family etc., at the absence of the opportunity to physically meet at this time. We have already become good friends with a few couples & have made arrangements to meet for a meal or drinks no sooner the situations get better.

One of the biggest fears we have meeting another couple is the awkwardness of meeting a friend of family, hence once we come to the stage where we’re talking on the phone, we would verify a few details such as the hometown, university attended, profession, industry attached etc., prior to sharing more personal details & normal photos.

Our advice to newbies to this site is that, after doing a bit of research, we have found this site to be the #1 best site at least from a Sri Lankan context to make connections with the best, classy, genuine, experienced couples. Hence look no further you have come to the right place. However, no such site comes without disadvantages such as fake profiles & people who does not know the subject matter., hence choose wisely with whom to connect with if you don’t want to have a bad experience & ruin a beautiful lifestyle you could lead to.

Happy Swinging!

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